i kept wondering when i’ll find a boyfri…
i kept wondering when i’ll find a boyfriend. all my life i’ve been single and thought life was great as it is, but seeing all my friends have their own special persons now i kinda feel lonely and sometimes jealous. why can’t i find one when they could? is it because i’m different? when will it be my time?? >.<
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JadedNikky 12:43 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Even if you are different, you will find that special someone. Remember, those who laugh at the different are laughed at for being the same.
As for getting that person, maybe you should try to find that person in different places. I know quite a few friends who have found people over the internet (though you must always be careful with this). Or maybe you should try to take the inititive andgo out and find that person. Like Lao Tzu had once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.”
Quiet Riot 1:37 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I think life just loves to give us presents when we’re not expecting them at all. Funny though, that this post is opposite of JadedNikky.
I had a friend who was just set on finding that person, that they went to speed dates, put a profile online, went clubbing, joined clubs at her school… but to no avail.
I would say after two months she stopped all that as I guess she was frustrated. We went to her favorite cafe on poetry night, and she ended up clicking with a guy who had a similar prosody style! Now they’ve been happy together for about a year now, and this is her first boyfriend at the age of 24.
So I think, if you don’t worry yourself too much nor demean yourself, just let your life take course and provide you with the opportunity. =) There’s nothing wrong with waiting if it means you’ll find an amazing person to be with in mind, body, and soul the first time around.
InsertWittyName 8:53 am on March 13, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Aww. I know how you feel, kind of. I haven’t been in a relationship in a long time and there are absolutely no guys who seem to have any interest in me.
I’m terribly lonely when i see all my friends with their significant others. I miss being in love.