I want my wife to cheat on me.
I’ve posted before how I have recently run into my old girlfriend, and we have been having lunch and such. We’ve done nothing sexual… yet. It’s only a matter of time. I have fallen so very deeply in love with her, and all I can think about is getting her back. However, I am a passive aggressive, and don’t have the guts to throw my wife out. She’s cheated on me before, and now I need her to do it again. How? How do I get her into the bed of another man?
Yeah, its gonna happen. I’m going to cheat on my wife with the woman I left her for 18 years ago. Leaving her was the biggest mistake I ever made in my life, I have done nothing but regret it ever since. I walked away from the most innocent, sweetest, most honest and caring person I have ever met for someone completely opposite to her. I hadn’t seen her in 17 years, but we ran into each other on line and started talking. She is no longer able to drive due to a medical condition, so I have been helping her get to the store when I can. We would have lunch, catch up, and both had a great time just seeing each other again. She just recently moved in to a new place, so I was helping her move some things and do a few repairs. We really hadn’t let anything physical get between us. We did kiss a couple times, but it was very familiar and innocent. Not this time. We were in her living room, and I was sitting on the couch with her, helping her program her remote. Got done, and yeah, we just kinda tore into each other. We didn’t have sex, but we would have if her roommate wasn’t returning shortly. I’m supposed to put up some shelves for her in a couple of days. I hope her roommate has things to do that day.
I feel sad for you. One day you will wake up alone or with this woman that can only provide one thing for you.
sounds like an indie movie
I wish my wife would just cheat on me and give me a reason to throw her out. Our love is just dead.
I am having lunch tomorrow with my ex-fiancee that I walked out on 18 years ago. I haven’t seen her in all that time, not even a picture, and I still have no idea what she looks like now. I really hope my wife doesn’t find out about it, but then again, I really hope she does.
Do you care to share why u walked away from her? I’m curious
Because I was a damned idiot, and thought I found someone that ‘suited me better’. I have regretted it for 18 years, and we had a fantastic time at lunch.
Oh I’m sorry. That’s great you had a good time. I wonder his she felt when she saw you…and I’m curious to know if wifey is gonna find out. Hope not. Do you think that something could come of this lunch date?
We were both in tears when we saw each other and had a great 3 hours together. I actually thought about telling my wife about it, but not doing it yet. As far as something coming out of it, it already has. We’ve at least renewed a lost friendship. But, I could easily tell we both wanted to renew more than that.
yea what exactly happened at lunch this sounds so scandalous i love it its like a fairy tale waiting to happen you realize this right?
Nothing happened at lunch other than a conversation. We spent the entire time catching up, laughing and crying. When I dropped her off was when things got a bit sticky. We hugged, had a small kiss, then both kinda had that moment where we had to fight what we were feeling.
Several years ago, my father-in-law suffered a debilitating stroke that landed him in a nursing home, likely for the rest of his life. I was off work, and helping my mother-in-law move into a new place. (technically my step-mother-in-law) She was upset and crying at one point, so I tried to comfort her by giving her a hug. The hug started lasting way too long, she started rubbing my back, and yeah, we wound up having sex. We are now having sex on a regular basis. She’s absolutely amazing in bed, and I have no intention of stopping. I’m 42, she’s 65.
One day in 1992, I was visiting my fiancee’s house. She was getting ready for work, but her brother invited me to stay and play a video game with him.It was nothing out of the ordinary, as I had become very close with the whole family. I think it was a racing game on the Super Nintendo. The game was in his room, so we just sat on the edge of the bed and played. We started getting competitive, and started playfully pushing each other, grabbing the other’s controller, stuff like that. At one point, I knocked his controller out of his hand. He then tried reaching for mine, but kind of leaned back and to the side to keep him from being able to reach it. Before I knew it, I was laying flat on the bed, he got over the top of me, and he was kissing me. I froze up at first, but after maybe a minute, I started responding. To make a long story short, I had sex with him that day, and two other times after that. I had honestly never even thought about guys before or since. I’ve never once thought about being with a guy since then, but if the opportunity to be with him again came up, I’d probably take it.
I don’t mean to be a dick here but I cannot see what the problem is. You had a gay encounter (as do many people) and enjoyed it. I’m guessing you now consider yourself bisexual, I also hope that you didnt go through with the marriage to your fiancee as that wouldn’t be fair on her.
No, I don’t consider myself bi. It was a temporary thing, and I honestly haven’t thought about being with a guy since. And yes, I married her, and we are still married.
does she know that you fucked her brother whilst being in a relationship with her?
Absolutely not. She wouldn’t have stayed with me if she knew.
I can’t stop thinking about you now, and I know you’re thinking of me. I understand why you can’t talk to me, and I’m not going to mess things up for you. I will wait for you forever, and when the time comes, I will make it work, I swear on my life.
Damn it M! Stop listening to your boyfriend! He is a crippled retard! I hate to use terms like that, but god damn it I am so pissed. You can’t email me now? I hate to think of the other things he won’t let you do. We have known each other for nearly 25 years. I know you a lot better than he does! I care about you a lot more than he does! Why can’t you see it? Why can’t I say it?
Tell this to her. Then one day when she gets enough of him she’ll apologize 
Trust me, she does not owe me an apology - ever.
If she vales your relationship she will.
She’s not even allowed to email me at this point, so no apology is coming.
It’s 5 am, and I’ve been up all night. I can’t sleep, can’t get you out of my head. Even after having sex with my wife tonight for the first time in months, all I can think about is you. I have been trying to forget you for years, but the guilt won’t let me. How could I be so stupid to leave you? You were the best thing that ever happened to me, and now I have to lie to my wife, and tell her it’s her. I am ashamed and embarrassed at the way I treated you, and I can never make up for it. But god knows, I want to.
Why did I contact you M? This is insane! You’ve been all across the country for the past 18 years, you move back to within 10 miles of me, and we can’t meet each other for lunch? Because your boyfriend doesn’t like it? There’s a fine line between protecting you, and controlling you.
I miss you, even 18 years later. Talking to you recently has made me miss you even more. I was wrong. I was oh so very wrong. I knew it almost immediately, but I couldn’t tell you. You have always been a much better person than I, and I never deserved you. I thought leaving you was the right thing to do, for all the wrong reasons. I have been miserable for the last two decades, and I deserve it. Not being able to see you is killing me. I wish I could erase the last 18 years and begin anew. I know it could never happen, but for some reason, I can’t help but hold a glimmer of hope that we can be together again.
God, I am so sorry.
tell em, go up and tell them how you feel, if its tearing you up then take the chance your so desperaetly asking for, the worst that can happen is them say no.
go out and take a chance, you might just be suprised.
pd0815 11:54 am on April 6, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
if she’s already cheated before, you have your excuse. tell her it’s been eating away at you and to get the fuck out.
QuiteStupidPerson 2:04 pm on April 7, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Not that simple. It was 11 years ago when she cheated on me. To throw her out now makes me look bad. I really need this to be her fault entirely.
nohelpforit 4:19 pm on April 7, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Have you ever seen the movie Chloe? haha. This woman pretty much hires a prostitute to seduce her husband to see if he would cheat on her. Then again I guess that would run contrary to what you are trying to do, end the relationship with a clean conscience. I’m passive aggressive too so I get where you are coming from. Do you have any attractive friends she would like? Have them over to your place, I guess. Either that or just wait for her to screw up. But really, from a logical point of view, wanting to end the marriage should be reason enough.