I’m bulimic. I feel like everywhere I go, people are staring at me, wondering how on earth a person could be so fat and feeling good that they aren’t as disgusting to look at as I am. I feel like food controls my life. I’m overweight but not obese; I wear an American size 12-14, […]
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keilin
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fullofsecrets
I think I am addicted to sex. I have been watching porn since I was around 13 and ever since I’ve lost my virginity…all I do is try and find ways to have sex with someone. I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m 19. But I never really think about boyfriend material…I just kind […]
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pd0815
there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. you have an active craving for sex and maybe a very nice imagination. I would suggest for you to just be safe. I’m in the same boat just not about guys. I just found out yesterday that I might be a paraphiliac. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I have an excellent therapist.
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Y ask Y
Here’s my take on it (without knowing you obviously): Unless it’s interfering with you operating in your normal life, there’s nothing wrong with you. That is to say, if you absolutely CANNOT control your behaviour, or you don’t like what you’re doing but can’t stop, then yea it might be time to really talk to somebody. If you’re doing it and it makes you feel like shit and riddled with guilt, talk to someone.
But if it’s not, don’t worry about it. You’re not married, no kids. So just be safe. Be really really safe, and who gives a shit what society has to say about it. They’re not walking in your shoes. And besides if you were a 19yr. old guy laying chick left, right, and center and laying two in the same day they’d be giving you medals. It just a weak double standard that men are revered for having a sex drive while women get vilified for it. Don’t buy into it.
As for the rest: Shit I’m way older than 19, and I keep waiting for the day my sex drive is going to die down and it just doesn’t. And the porn? Forget about it. I look at so much tranny porn it should be a crime. No one knows, I’m a decent person, good friend. I pay my taxes. Who cares? I’m not overly concerned about it. Cut yourself some slack.
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Masturbatesinpublic1
I don’t think I’ll ever get over my sex addiction…
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KindWords
I agree with Y ask Y! And believe me, later on in life, when you’re older and perhaps in a serious relationship, you will be glad that you explored and experimented. Be safe and don’t let guys use you, if there are no feelings involved, really, you’re using them.
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confusedtrio
Hide and Seek, balancing feelings
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Mara
I shouldn’t be here. He’s asleep in the bed, not two feet away. On Valentine’s Eve. He asked me to leave, but there’s no place to go to - so I stayed. He’s in love with his ex still. I’m in love with him. And I’ll spend the night in his bed. I shouldn’t. I […]
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mojonano
Hypocrite
I talk about respecting the soldiers and monogamy as a virtue. I’m homeless and once chased a creepy guy away from this girl who was visiting from out of town. The next day, I hung out with her for awhile, talked about her husband in afghanistan, then fucked her in her hotel’s public bathroom.
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codedarmes
so you’re homeless but can use a computer…….. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FUCKING AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!♂▬
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mojonano
It isn’t hard to go the library, retard.
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blueshoes
Confession #2: You are one of my best friends, really and truly. My friends tell me I light up when I talk to you, even when I talk about you. Unfortunately, I had to like you from the day we met. Then I had to fall in love with you. You had to have a […]
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Cavalary
Sounds like you have a damn good reason to be unhappy… (As a rule of thumb, don’t trust mental health “professionals”.)
But yeah, sanity is way overrated.
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pd0815
everybody’s a stalker. That’s one of my songs. yea
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ClosetAthiest
I had given up on African-American guys, until I met him. To me it seemed that there was not even a single black man out there that could live up to my standards, let alone be in a relationship with me. Every black guy I met seemed as if he was uneducated, obnoxious, or ignorant. […]
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moonlight
I went to confession on Saturday. (The first time in 8 months) In the middle of my confession, the priest asked me to hurry it up. He also said that finding a “good Catholic” husband will be hard for me since I no longer have my virginity and I’m only 18. Never, and I mean NEVER, […]
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raven
letting go of religion is one of the hardest things to do, however, i’ve recently realised that religion is thrust upon us in an attempt to control the masses. you should never feel guilty about your life experiences. we’ve been put on earth for a short time, and it would be remiss to not experience all the pleasure and pain that life has to offer. organized religion is a croc! and your priest sounds like an a$$. trust in your own convictions and make your own decisions! xoxoxo
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immortally.alive
Well, Theres is someone for everyone, i think you should keep your head up. i’ve never been a fan of catholicism, but its not my place to judge. i beleive the bible says “Come As You Are”.. You should find someone who makes you happy, and confess your sins directly to the lord, on your own time in The comfort of your room. you dont need a judgemental mediator to make you feel worse when you just need guidance or advice.. if you must talk to a person, try someone of the christian faith, or a close friend, or GroupHug!
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no refunds
both these guys are right
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LN
Questioning religion is a normal, healthy part of growing up. In fact, I encourage questioning religion, but by this I do not mean “everyone should deny all religion.” Questioning religion will allow you to learn more about yourself and what you truly believe.
That being said, there is no doubt what the priest said to you was wrong. I do not see how he could think that statement was appropriate.
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moonlight
I want to thank all of you for your support
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phisher
If you want some explanation of diction in the bible. Catholic mass is not the place for it. That is ritual. Repetition.
I attend a Bible Baptist mass and we use the King James version of the bible.
He quotes scripture and relates the signifigance over and over.
Jesus saves.
Accepting Jesus as your savior saves.
Going to a church who worships iconic prayer and “sacraments” is not what the bible states you should do, anywhere.
Reguardless, you have to figure it out for yourself. Do some exploring
Good Luck
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thisisnotmyname
I feel horrible about cheating on my wife. I made a fake email account and posted and replied to the casual encounters ads. She doesn’t even know that I use msn. This is my vicious cycle: I spend a lot of time online watching porn, then I get extremely aroused and do extremely stupid stuff. […]
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Remixer
My only suggestion:
Apologize to your wife with every ounce of sincerity in you and confess what you did. Do explain how terrible you feel, and explain your cycle to her.
However, you must be ready for the possibility, that she might leave you immediately after you confess.
Being held accountable for something you feel guilty for is the only way you will stop it from nagging on your mind and repeating this cycle.
While you’re at it, get rid of your computer and find some resolve in the love you hold for your wife, because you cheating on her shows exactly the opposite of what you’re telling us and yourself.
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bobburgster
I have to agree with Remixer and addictguy….you need help, and to be honest with her.
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wd40
Do you own a computer and you wife owns a different one? Because if you have your own computer then go to internet options and then go to internet site blocking and just type some different letters and numbers that you will not ever remember so when u look at porn you wont be able to because those sites are locked. hope i helped
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addictguy
there are programs you can go to that help with your issue. It can be a type od sex addiction. I have a few friends that have had alot of success with them. SAA( sex addicts anonomys) is one but there are plenty of others, SCA SRA SLAA. It’s worth it to save a marriage.
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immortally.alive
Theres this man, he’s so perfect, his skin, his lips, his laugh, his hair, the way his eyes droop a lil n his hands are perfect. i’ve never felt such an intense feeling, so real, so respected, so liked. im a recovering sex addict, n he is my knight, he deprived me of my craving, […]
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Misunderstood
I’m scarred all over the face. I’m hoplessly frail. I am a porn addict still suffering. The woman I love makes me forget all that. You’re not alone
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immortally.alive
i wish we were all just blind to things.. maybe this is karma. i cant embrace the fact that this is just who i AM. i CANT i’ve tried n I just cant.
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itsme
The outside is nothing compaired to the inside. I don’t think I’m much of a catch, but my boyfriend treats me like a queen- he could be with someone prettier than me, but he chose me. I’ll never understand why, I know he could be with someone prettier, but they often say with beauty comes stupidity and I know a stupid girl wouldn’t be much of a companion to him. I’m glad to have him, and I’d never question why he wouldn’t chose someone else, I’m grateful that God gave him to ME of all people. Be thankful that He blessed you!
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immortally.alive
Im thankful but i think hes so beautiful he needs a beautiful woman next to him, and im not her.
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boo
you know what? I don’t know what you look like or anything about you, but you just said some really nice things to me in my confession and ive seen you comment on others as well. you seem to have a huge heart and care about letting all of these people that you dont even know that their lives and problems are important to you or at least to someone. but whenever you are talking about yourself you are always putting yourself down and degrading yourself. I’m sure that you’re an amazing person and this guy…well he must think so too. so try picture you by his side and not someone else. (:
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resolve
Meh.
I’m really worried that I’m not going to be able to lose the last thirty pounds that I need to lose in order to be sworn into the Navy. I’m working out five days a week, eating right, but I can’t help but think that I’m doing SOMETHING wrong. When I leave, I’ll be leaving behind […]
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102030405
Good luck making the weight limit, it’s great that you’re disciplining yourself in order to get what you want, do what makes you happy!
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waitingforever
look up the detox diet. What I did was only eat natural organic foods and drinks for 30 days and I lost almost 20 puunds the first month and then another 35 over the course of two months. Totaling 55 lbs shed. Look up “Full Circle” food products. They have this awesome balsalmic dressing that you can put on chicken, wrap it up and bake it for an hour, it tastes yummy. Also dont eat red meat mostly chicken and fish not fried or breaded, just baked or grilled in non fat organic oils or water and herbs. Trust me this helps.
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kitty3.14
dexter
If I were married to Dexter (the TV character), I honestly have to say that I would not care that he was a serial killer who only goes after the bad guys. I even enjoy watching him slay all those bad, evil people. I am even thrilled when he gets his kill. I admit this […]
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xorayray333
I completely agree and feel the same. I’m also really really attracted to him, but I’ve always had a thing for dangerous guys. Not really “bad boys”. but Dexter is a perfect example. And I almost see myself in him, with all the pessimistic views on emotion.
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noname
So I have this problem, a kind of normal problem I guess. I’m still in love with my ex boyfriend. We started dating August 20th and we were on and off for 9 months. I never gave him head, but I let him take my virginity. After he took my virginity he decided head was more important […]
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Dan-Yella
I’m in a slightly similar situation.
Except, we broke up after 9 months for fighting over the most irrelevant things that just weren’t important. The thing is, we still remain friends in the hopes of working things out.
That’s when it gets sticky. He doesn’t know what he wants it seems, because one minute he can be cold and distant and then the next, we’ll hug eachother, and everything feels just right.
Its so much easier to just fall into a pattern, rather than moving on. And although you have moved on it doesn’t seem like you’re over your ex. Maybe if you had some single, alone time, you might be able to clear your thoughts.
All the best.
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padyirishman
hiya wana chat
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yarsaf
I don’t know why you suddenly decided t…
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BJ
Amen! Supposedly people come in and out of your life for different reasons at different times. I can think of a few I wish I had never wasted my time friendship and love on….but I must have learned something from that to prepare me for an even better relationship in the future. So you got the right idea!
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moonlight
Way to go!
Keep your head held up high!!
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yarsaf
yeah, thx for your input!! I really appreciate it.
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Nostalgia
Since the other GH is being host to 16 year old girls I am going to post my confession here. I have discovered a new sense of self today. I ephiphany’d in my pants. It’s…a re-energizing feeling of sorts. I feel happy. Not genuinely happy. But satisfied and content with this new…reality. I’m going to be […]
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d1sk2kr
this is how i want to feel right now..
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Remixer
I am truly glad for your life to have developed this way.
Keep it up.
Remixer
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Nostalgia
Hello? Doctor? I relapsed again.
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Nostalgia
It seems I’m beginning to form a rooted hatred for my brother. I’m not too fond of wanting to kill someone.
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Ihatefeelingthisway
Maybe you should talk to him about it.
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Aerotan
I love him, I really do. I’m just worried that I may be sabotaging myself somewhat in order to unite us. We’re so far apart…Anything less than a week at a time would be utterly out of the question, a waste of time and money, even if it would be worth it for those few […]
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pd0815 6:45 am on March 25, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
12-14 is perfect. I really don’t know how TV or advertising can literally effect people’s feelings about themselves. We’re designing our cd cover and it’s going to have a dead girl on it. I hope it doesn’t project that we encourage death in girls. because it doesn’t. we love girls .. live ones… with warm skin and . … i’ll stop