It’s amazing how all the answers you need come to you while you drink and cook with beer. I was wondering if I should move back to the town I grew up, I decided against it as there is less likley I would get the help I need and I would be driven nuts by […]
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knittedscarecrow
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cryingwolf
Mom it’s not my grandfather’s death I fear…
Mom, it’s not my grandfather’s death I fear, I was never that close to him. *This* is what I fear. The sense that I have no right to be happy when someone is dying, when you are trying to control your emotions despite your worry and grief. When / if he dies, this is what […]
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knittedscarecrow
Funding has been cut to my job so next week is my last week. Yes I am hurt. Yes I am upset, but I got what I wanted out of the job- so really I should not complain. I hope I get more work before christams- I hate getting asked ‘Do you have a job […]
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Alice
My parents were killers my dad is dead…
My parents were killers; my dad is dead, and my mother has been in jail since I was 15. I never thought I deserved anything out of life, that maybe I was just a stain on the world. But I think I may be falling in love. And I’m terrified that once he finds out […]
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AsKnownAs.
Your parents are the ones who did what they did, not you. Don’t feel responsible for the terrible choices two other people made, you aren’t them. When you come to realise that you are your own person, then he’ll believe the same.
If he did leave you because of your parents past, then that’s his own stupid decision.Good luck
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akune
I wish that I could like my mother, but after this week, I’m not sure if I can. All she seems to be doing is overriding my wants and needs just for her selfish reasons. I need to talk to people at the college I attend because I’m afraid of failing a class I can’t fail and I need to work my ass off before the semester ends, she nearly made me cancel a meeting I had been fighting for weeks to go to since it’ll give me some way to get out from underneath her control, and what does she do? She runs all of that over because she wants to move in spite of the fact that I told her this ahead of time. Not only that, she seems to taken up to making degrading about me about being disabled and kept on insulting me throughout the meeting with them. I’m also sweltering because it became hot all of a sudden and she’s refusing to run the cooler for any reasonable amount of time. I’m just getting tired of her bullshit.
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A.Girl
On tuesday i’m going away for 3days, leaving my boyfriend at home with my father. My father who’s out of weed and pretty volitile right now. I’ll be with extended family at a game reserve. I don’t know if i want to go, but i have to because the ticket’s have already been bought. Plus i’ll […]
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lightlurker
Distance can be healing. If a three day trip away doesn’t help, it might be a point to break up. Either way it sounds like you need it, you either need to be able to talk to your boy or you need to give up on the relationship, because there really isn’t one if you can’t be comfortable with him. Right now you aren’t helping yourself, hopefully the trip will help you clear your head. In anycase, I can be quite unreasonable myself so I’m not afraid to tell you that for starters it won’t help worrying about it.
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A.Girl
thank you for your reply… I’m hoping things go well, i guess its good to test relationships once in a while… Hopefully it’ll be healthy for us.
On a side note, reading you’re latest submission was awesome
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A.Girl
Why put yourself in a place of responsibilty and dependancy if you refuse to do anything with it except f*ck us around? Your selfishness is limiting us, in so many ways. Because of you our world is so small… This is what makes me angry. You are self indulgant to the point of gluttony and excess… Its […]
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noworries
I’m bisexual. I keep telling myself that nobody will care, but I’m too afraid to tell anybody. My family and my friends will just judge me; they’ll think of me differently. It’s been haunting me since I started college last semester. I’ve sat around doing nothing just thinking about it. My grades are terrible, my […]
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ScrewEverything
I know what your going through, somewhat, at least. It does suck. :l
You could always do what I did.
Start out by telling someone else whos into the same sex, someone you can trust.
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CurrerBell
You know, some people might say, “Oh, it’s no big deal. It’s just ONE part of you. It doesn’t define your entire being” but it’s hard not to think about it all the time, isn’t it? It’s hard because you know it’s the one part of you that might mean you’ll be liked less, loved less, for who you are. I sometimes start to hate myself because I know my parents will hate me for it, or my friends will see me differently.
I hope you know there’s no pressure to tell anyone yet. You can tell someone once you feel and know that you’re ready. That might be next week, next month, next year, who knows.
Does your college have a LGBT support group? It’s generally an anonymous place and it might help make you feel a bit less afraid.
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noworries
Thanks for the kind words.
My college has a very large percentage of LGBT people attending; in fact, the city it is in has a reputation for it. But I’m not a very social person. I have a tendency to have panic attacks when too much attention is drawn to me, so I tend to avoid group things. That’s why I feel like I can’t really tell anyone because I have this nagging feeling that I’ll suddenly break down one day. I’m an incredibly emotionally unstable person. And I know that my few male friends are going to get distant, because that’s how they were with another of my close friends that came out.
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naughtywulf
I have feelings for a cousin of mine, she’s not related to me technically since she’s a foster child. She also is about four, maybe years younger that me and I’m 20 years old. I haven’t told her and I don’t know what to do.
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Jasmine
third coming out attempt: failed. mother, understand. i’m not confused - you’re ignorant.
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All Time Shannon
hmm… i dont know what to say to this. I see you tagged it as ‘sad’ please dont be sad. you have the courage to come out, some people don’t. know that we accept you. your mother will come round. what she said, that you confused… is only to be expected.
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jasmine
i’m fourteen years old, but i came out to my best friend at thirteen, and i’ve known who i am for longer than that. hopefully my mother will eventually see
i just gotta hold on, all my friends are wishing the best for me, and i love them all for that ^-^
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Megoosh
I hate that I want a family so badly. It seems like the only guys who show any interest only want sex. Dont get me wrong, I love sex, but I want more than that. I have never had this problem before in my life. Its always been that guys were tripping over their feet […]
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immortally.alive
I understand you completely, i’ve got the same life in mind, i want to have a family, i want to have the home, the cat, the fish tank, the kids, lol everything, i want to be in a big happy family! I’ve been told that I am intimidating, maybe its because i know what i want, n maybe its gonna take a really strong man to take that on. Just keep ur head up, n it’ll happen eventually!
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All Time Shannon
aDayInTheLifeOf-TheShannon.blogspot.com here to help EVERYONE. Please visittttt. I love you all (:
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resolve
Meh.
I’m really worried that I’m not going to be able to lose the last thirty pounds that I need to lose in order to be sworn into the Navy. I’m working out five days a week, eating right, but I can’t help but think that I’m doing SOMETHING wrong. When I leave, I’ll be leaving behind […]
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102030405
Good luck making the weight limit, it’s great that you’re disciplining yourself in order to get what you want, do what makes you happy!
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waitingforever
look up the detox diet. What I did was only eat natural organic foods and drinks for 30 days and I lost almost 20 puunds the first month and then another 35 over the course of two months. Totaling 55 lbs shed. Look up “Full Circle” food products. They have this awesome balsalmic dressing that you can put on chicken, wrap it up and bake it for an hour, it tastes yummy. Also dont eat red meat mostly chicken and fish not fried or breaded, just baked or grilled in non fat organic oils or water and herbs. Trust me this helps.
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Dutty_Punk
My current “girlfriend” (its an open relationship type thing) has a 5 year old daughter and, without droaning on too long, i have the hots for her. She still has a dummy (or pacifier as the yanks call it) and sometimes my girlfriend will put it in her own mouth when she has to hold […]
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MacNcheese
you’re fucked up
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unknown
the question is how do you stop feeling those feelings?
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mojonano
Get help before you hurt some kid and get killed in prison.
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codedarmes
0_0 ORLY
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southbeachyanira
deep down i kno my family is a well of infinite love and support whenever i need them. its a gift that a lot of ppl would kill to have. we have our issuse like every other family. but why do i feel like i want to rid myself of them? why do i feel […]
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recoiled
scratch my boyfriend issue… My mom is at the hospital. I don’t get it, we’re healthy people, things like this don’t happen to us… I usually don’t spend the night crying my heart out worrying about my mom having cancer… or something… I don’t know what to do.
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unknown
cancer is indiscriminate. from having someone close to em die of cancer, my only advice would be to spend as much time as you can with your mum, she may go into remission. the important thing is just to fill yourself with your mum, her love and her life
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adeafmute 12:27 pm on July 30, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
like him or not you will grieve for him its a natural reaction you shouldnt worry about feeling happy for her you deal with it in your way and she’ll deal in hers.