I get the feeling that my girlfriend is just going through the motions. She says she loves me and lets me kiss her sweetly and cuddle with her but we haven’t had sex in over a month, nearly 5 months with the exclusion of that single instance. We didn’t so much as make out on […]
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mojonano
I am one of the most shallow guys I know. I wasn’t always like this. I’ve been with really hot girls and I’ve been with fatties who aren’t so good looking, and they both act the same way. They’re self-centered, snobby, demanding bitches. So I’m only going to fuck hot women from now on. I’m […]
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lalola
I HATE that you’re MIA a majority of the time and then when you email me, leave a comment on my facebook or text me…all the resentment I have for you is ‘poof’ gone. And I’m all giddy to be your friend again. You take advantage of this idol worship I have for you. You […]
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El_Scorcho
It’s been five months since I last kissed you. I feel so alone without you. Barely anyone likes me. But you loved me, I see that now. If only I saw it at the time. I loved you, you’ve always known that. Whether you know I still do, I don’t know. If I were to guess, I’d […]
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gbear630
I thought I could handle this
Dear B, You know I thought I could handle the breakup. We knew it was coming we told ourselves when we got together in April that we were going to end it when we left for college. Still 4 months went by and it still hurt no matter how much I tried to prepare for it. […]
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florantine
Please never be lost without someone else. You can be happy without B.
In your heart, you can keep a space open for B, you can miss B, but just remember a wise man once said, “Human happiness and human satisfaction must ultimately come from within oneself.” And it’s really, really true. You can generate happiness in other aspects of life, and once they’re alright, everything will fall right into place.
And you know, the exact scenario happened to me a year ago, except we chose to do the long distance. It’s funny to see everyone’s parallel lives.
Best of luck.
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eradicate
You know how in movies, when your one true love rides off into the sunset with someone else, you’re hurt but it’s okay ‘cause you want them to be happy? Yeah, it’s a load of bullshit. I would rather see you in MISERY than with her. Or anyone for that matter. Maybe this means I don’t love […]
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TheBackground
I think that’s perfectly rational. No worries.
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AuroraRae
Life is never like the movies. Loving someone enough is still loving them.
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eradicate
I would say that I hope that things would work out for me, just once, in the romance department. Except they already have, once, and I was too emotionally stunted (yes, immature) to leap in joy and truly cherish what I had with you. And now I’m back and you have a GIRLFRIEND (whose eyes are […]
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TheBackground
Se la vie. This is how it goes.
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sidelineWISDOM
My girlfriend is a psycho emotional vampire.
Identifying my girlfriend as a psychopath 1) Glibness / superficial charm This is true. Glib is a lack of intellectual depth. She only has the ability to see generalizations and has only superficial plausibility. 2) Grandiose sense of self-worth This is also true. She’s too self-important. She’s ostentatious, pompous, vain, pretentious, and can’t accept responsibility for little […]
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soyboy2
I saw you should break up with her.
If your not happy being with her then there is no reason being with her.
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ReiseReise
I think you should point it out to her, if she doesn’t do anything, then you should leave her.
I’m a little scared myself, you described me a bit. I think I’ll have to actively change this.
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sidelineWISDOM
Thanks. I wouldn’t worry too much though. At least you’re able to realize this personally and you put it into perspective. My girlfriend, she is getting better slowly on a daily basis. I am strategizing this out.
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Gou2000
In order for a girl to have all that in her personality it means she experienced a lot. And she must be so damn beautiful:) for you to stay attached to her. The good thing you didn’t mention anything about cheating on you. So Fuck it stay with her .
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Song4TheNotebook
I feel like I have two separate lives. One with my girlfriends and all of our friends. And one by myself, that includes be naked and looking at porn. I’m trying to get rid of the second because I’m afraid she would leave me if she knew.
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soyboy2
hmm, i have the same concern, the side of me that i show to the world is the side i want to be. but i try to hide my perverted and porn addicted side from the world.
i try and get rid of my addiction of porn because im afraid id be scorned if the world knew, but i can;t get rid of it, and i wish there was a way to combine the 2.
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Song4TheNotebook
i dont want to combine the two!
i hate the hidden me! i want to get rid of it!
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s1mpl1c1ty
Some girls don’t mind
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Shannon_Secret
I second that!
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4qts
We are all hiding something. As long as its not really hurting anyone including you don’t worry about it
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groupkiss
yeah, chicks like it when they know that you know what you’re doing!
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Shannon_Secret
Me deffinetly!
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Song4TheNotebook
…im a girl too.
and i know for a fact it would bother her.
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letthefishgo
People need to watch porn more. Everyone is such a prude. Fuck those people! HAHAH yeehaww!
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El_Scorcho
You left me. I love you.
That’s it. It’s over. After one hell of a year and two months, you finally left me. I can’t really believe it. I don’t want to. I’m such a fucking idiot for the things i’ve done. I’m such a self centred dick for the things i’ve thought. I’m such a insensitive cunt for the things […]
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Cherry_chapstick7
I can’t really say anything but, “I’m sorry”. I hope things get better.:)
*hug
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joei
“I memorise every word you say and I hold it closer to my heart than my lungs”-
“although there are more fish in the sea. I’ll never find quite a rare beauty like you”
Man that’s beautiful! I sure hope you get your second chance- otherwise she’s the loser!
You’re 15! Hell, as a romantic by the time you’re 18 you’ll be unstoppable!and your PS hits the nail right square on the head.
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kiwi.in.oz
I think you are wrong in your PS. I don’t think they manage it at all, they are probably shut off to emotions because emotions can be scary and uncontollable sometimes.
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heavymetalcows22
I know how you feel. I am only 18, I was with someone from when i was 16 until a couple of months ago. Age makes no difference, don’t let anyone tell you that it does. I love him with all my heart. We never fought, until the last couple of months. Because I was so afraid that it was to good to be true, I was insecure and defensive. He left and said he was unhappy, later I found out that wasnt the reason. But my point is.. If you know you love this person with all of your heart and every drop of your soul, if you love them more than anyone in the universe, then don’t give up. If the love is as true as it sounds, she will realize that you’re wonderful. Some people are just meant to be together, no matter how many times they try to tear themselves apart. I’m still waiting. It hurts, but I know some how some way I’ll get another chance. I hope you do too. I’ll pray for you, whether you believe in God or not, that you find your happiness again. To be happy and in love is unequaled by every other emotion combined. Its bliss, and everyone deserves it. Good luck.
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El_Scorcho
kiwi, I hope you are wrong, but y’know what, i think you’re right.
I’ve tried for a second chance, i mean i’ve really tried. I’ve begged, and begged, to the point just before she starts to think i’m going to become an obsessed psycho killer ex-boyfriend. She won’t. It’s okay though. I don’t deserve one. I treated her like shit, so i shouldn’t have another. She doesn’t love me, so it’s okay that i won’t. She never has. So it’s good. She can find someone she does love now, who won’t treat her like he’s paid for her. Who she can spend time with, share love and laughter with, hug, kiss, and argue with. I just wish that person was me.
heavymetalcows22, I do love her more than anything in the universe, but that’s why i am giving up. Letting a bird out of a cage to be free kind of thing. I feel for you though, cause it seems as if we’re in a similar situation, the difference lies in that I know she is better off without me. By the sounds of things, you two are perfect for each other, and you’re perfectly right. Keep going, keep trying.
But me, i deserve not to be prayed for. I deserve not to be felt for, and with L, i don’t deserve unequaled happiness. Unfortunately, i wouldn’t have it with anyone else.
Oh, and joei, There is no winner in love. It is not a game as much as it may seem like it. It’s the most serious thing in the world. People have killed for it, people have died for it. People still do. Although there is no winner although it is no game, there will always be a loser, and on this occasion, it is me, not her. And now i seem like a patronizing idiot, talking to someone older than him like he has no idea on what love is. I should shut up. My apologies.
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camomile
Better move on .
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beeble
The thought of my girlfriend cheatng on me angers me.. but also turns me on like nothing else.
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immortally.alive 5:14 pm on February 12, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Kick Him In His Sack. Blaming it on Sake. FUCK Sake.
lalola 7:45 pm on February 12, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
She doesn’t have a sack. hahaha! It’s a girl that I’ve idolized since high school. She’s got voodoo on me and I don’t know why. Interestingly enough though she’s a lesbian so she blames that on why she kissed me too.
Girl 1:48 am on February 13, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
ahhh… i’ve grown to love a girl as well. i still don’t know what kind of love though, i’m pretty certain i’m romantically in love with her though. but at this point in time it’s just confusing.
i’m sure she doesn’t like that way though. i wonder if and when i’ll eventually get the guts to tell her.
lalola 9:48 pm on February 13, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
you know, I went through this in college. It was when I realized I was easily attracted to women as I was to men and it’s because I don’t fall with genitalia, I fall in love with the person. Labels are for spices, not people, you are attracted to who you are attracted to. It can be confusing but just be true to yourself. With this girl, I think I’ve been drawn to her for several reasons since I’ve met her but being that I was so young, I didn’t realize that part of the draw was an attraction to who she was. Confident, a go-getter, friendly, sweet - I later realized those are all qualities I look for in a guy as well. Unfortunately, she’s taken advantage of my friendship slash girlie crush on her over and over again, I just really need to cut her out. But its hard…. especially when she starts paying attention to me again.