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moontissues
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Rejected_Pathetically
My first boyfriend used to tell me all the time that I was fat and ugly. It’s only hit me recently, about nine years later, that he was right- I am ugly. I have a shit personality, too, so I guess that kinda leaves me with nothing.
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quiteabitch
You only ave a shit personality because you let others put you down, We all have our imperfections, and ourselves and others must learn to accept them and move on…Im sure there is a lot more in you than just shit personality and being ugly, Im sure youll find someone that will love you no matter how”ugly” or shity personalitied you are. I velieve in you, and I know you also have wonderfull traits.
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whyme3
i kno how ya feel. my first boyfrind broke up with me jus because i did my hair in pigtails. did ur boyfrind do it in front of ppl? usually they only do it 2 luuk kewl, but theyre all jerks laffing at gurls. also, no 1 is ugly. every1 has something awesome about the. u have a way with awesome words, so dats something!
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Rejected_Pathetically
Hey whyme,
I only saw this now! He actually didn’t say anything about my looks in front of people, but he did insult my intelligence and sanity in front of others. He was bad news.
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hi, how are you
How could you? HOW COULD YOU?! I wish you realized. You hurted me and you don’t give a shit about it. You don’t even know you hurted me because you’re an insensitive, selfish bitch. I was so stupid… You used me! You were my friend because I was the only one who was patient enough […]
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lcdoggy
Wow your thinking exactly what i was thinking today when i found out she had that boyfriend that i like but i dont know about his small d***…. thanks for showing me its not just me who had/has a bitch of a friend
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nothing but me
You’re welcome =)
(By the way, I don’t like her boyfriend. He’s a jerk.)
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thallie
Dear Starshine, You’ve not called me in I can’t remember how long. Not even when Jimmy died — all you could do was text me with “I’m sorry”. It’s always IM with you now — skype for a few minutes once every few weeks, if I’m lucky. I remember when we used to count down the […]
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ShastaKey
I just got out of a relationship that was kind of like this. I was hurt, I was used, I was taken for granted. I couldn’t talk about it, either, because it’d upset her and I’d have to console her. Just like you.
And it killed me. Every day, it killed me. Because, God, I loved her so much. Loved her with everything I was. I wanted to keep her forever.
I’m not going to tell you to break it off. I know it’s not going to work. If you do break it off, it’ll be because you’ve had enough, not because anyone told you so. Especially some nobody on the internet.
I’m going to tell you that you deserve better, that you shouldn’t be hurt like you are. Because that’s true. I’m also gonna do my best to keep listening to you. I’ve been where you are, and it’s just about the worst.
Stay strong. You’re worth it, even if nobody else seems to think so.
Godspeed, Thallie.
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AsKnownAs.
Thallie.
I always care. But it seems that what I told you was something you didn’t want to acknowledge because you care about this person so much.
Sorry if I upset you, it wasn’t my intention. I know you are speaking generally so I’m not targetting only myself.
Whatever decision you make in life, its what is meant to be, or at least meant to happen.
I hope this person comes to realise how their actions have hurt you.
And if they don’t, I hope they keep you happy anyway.
All the best, from the bottom of my heart Thallie,
Daniela.
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thallie
Sorry, Daniela. I wasn’t trying to attack you. I’m just very frustrated with him tonight. Everything is just sort of snowballing from stress and all that. Know that I always take what you say to heart, and I know that you care about me (: I’m sorry if it seemed like I was attacking you. You’re not the only person who has pointed out that a pattern is forming lately, and I’ve been considering my options (or non-options, really) and… bleh.
I mostly just needed to let it out, I think. And GroupHug just happens to be the best place to do that.
Internet hugs for you, Daniela. You are an amazing friend (:
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thallie
p.s. also posting here sometimes makes me angrier/braver and actually get off my ass and do something.
Like fuss at him.
Which is what I’m doing right now.
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ShastaKey
Power to you.
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thallie
I am Thallie. Hear me roar.
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florantine
One of the hardest things to accept is change. Relationships change—they have high points and low points. When we romanticize the high points when the high points were all in the past, this could be a problem. There is hope, as long as you keep enough of that in your pocket, you can get through what could potentially be a low point. Remember, though, hope is not sustenance. You can not survive an entire relationship on hope. You just have to gain the eyesight to spot the point that’s past too late. After hoping long enough with no positive change. You know, there is fighting, too. Some of us try to fight change through denial or ignoring it.
I’m not sure how much sense I’m making. I hope I am making sense.
Oh, your writing is beautiful. It’s on-key, you know— If you were a singer trying to find the right pitch and hit the right notes to express your love for Starshine and your dejection, too. Yeah, your writing hits all the right notes.
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Chemistry
I know I’m a little late with the response, but I do agree that the writing is beautiful and I feel like I can completely relate.
I miss when he used to talk to me because he wanted to; because he said he his day wasn’t complete without having at least one legit conversation with me. Now, it’s kind of like he just talks to me because he needs someone; he just feels lonely. Blaaah.
I think ShastaKey is absolutely right. You DO deserve better. Nobody deserves to be in such pain. But you will eventually become strong enough to realize that there is better out there for you, or the idiot boy will realize that he should treat you better.
I hope it’s the latter. Keep us updated ♥
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Dreamboat Annie
My heart’s going to break in two. Oh wait. That’s happened already. He acts like he likes me, then won’t do anything and I end up hurt and alone. That’s it. I’m moving on. I’m done waiting for him to make sense. And now one of my good guy friends seems to like me. I’m usually shy, but […]
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immortally.alive
Theres this man, he’s so perfect, his skin, his lips, his laugh, his hair, the way his eyes droop a lil n his hands are perfect. i’ve never felt such an intense feeling, so real, so respected, so liked. im a recovering sex addict, n he is my knight, he deprived me of my craving, […]
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Misunderstood
I’m scarred all over the face. I’m hoplessly frail. I am a porn addict still suffering. The woman I love makes me forget all that. You’re not alone
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immortally.alive
i wish we were all just blind to things.. maybe this is karma. i cant embrace the fact that this is just who i AM. i CANT i’ve tried n I just cant.
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itsme
The outside is nothing compaired to the inside. I don’t think I’m much of a catch, but my boyfriend treats me like a queen- he could be with someone prettier than me, but he chose me. I’ll never understand why, I know he could be with someone prettier, but they often say with beauty comes stupidity and I know a stupid girl wouldn’t be much of a companion to him. I’m glad to have him, and I’d never question why he wouldn’t chose someone else, I’m grateful that God gave him to ME of all people. Be thankful that He blessed you!
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immortally.alive
Im thankful but i think hes so beautiful he needs a beautiful woman next to him, and im not her.
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boo
you know what? I don’t know what you look like or anything about you, but you just said some really nice things to me in my confession and ive seen you comment on others as well. you seem to have a huge heart and care about letting all of these people that you dont even know that their lives and problems are important to you or at least to someone. but whenever you are talking about yourself you are always putting yourself down and degrading yourself. I’m sure that you’re an amazing person and this guy…well he must think so too. so try picture you by his side and not someone else. (:
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All Time Shannon
Is wrong for me to hurt myself for what HE did? …
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dreamerbrandon
Yes, you should not let him get you down like that
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Kitty
He doesn’t do It on purpose. He stopped loving me
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true story
others will love you.
he isnt worth the pain xx-
Kitty
He’s worth everything I have. Nobody understands me like he does. Im afraid nobody ever will
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ninjanika
That’s understandable, but I promise that if one person can figure you out, someone else will be able to as well. Here’s to hoping that person is better looking than this guy!
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Kitty
Lmao. Awh thanks for that. You made me smile
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ninjanika
Good, keep doing that
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Chemistry
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Dan-Yella
Be honest with yourself and with him.
You never lose by loving, you only lose by holding back.
Maybe hearing him tell you that he has no feelings for you any more and that he’s moved on, will help you reconcile thoughts in your mind and allow you you to move on from this guy and let you get on with your life.
Daniela
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bunny
Thanks for the reply.
And he’s just overall confusing. He always comes back to me. I feel like his security when everything else goes wrong. -
Dan-Yella
He feels like security because you have known him for at least two years..
Hes’ clearly been a consistency in your life, and when everything seems to go wrong, we always seem to go running back to the most normal feeling thing in our lives, no matter how aware we are that it can hurt us, anyway.
I think you need to replace that consistency with something else like a friend, or family member, and heck, even a journal can help.
Daniela
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bunny
Well, I meant he comes back to me when things go wrong. We used to date and I just feel like his rebound for most things now.
I guess it’s not true all the time, but it gets pretty upsetting.I try to move on and every time I think I do, surprise, surprise, he comes knocking at my door.
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Dan-Yella
Cut ties with him. But don’t burn that bridge, unless you want to.
And only properly contact him once you are completely over him, even when he’ll undoubtedly will come back to you to consult his problems.
Seems like youre a consistency in his life. If you are happy to be, make sure he isn’t using you.
Daniela
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bunny
I guess you’re right. Thanks for the advice.
I’ll try but I don’t know if I’m that strong
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pd0815 11:31 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
If he already has a girlfriend, and i guess you already knew about her, how did you get hurt? I really doubt this guy has issues with confrontation. no one really does. I has more to do with convenience and being a asshole. The people he has “destroyed”… i mean… who allows that to happen to themselves these days? If it’s true then they’ve allowed themselves to be destroyed. You were used if he already has a girlfriend. he’s not only a user but a cheater as well and that’s just the crap you know about. good luck getting the truth from him. I like trying to guess what happened in this drama that has caused you to hurt so. My advise would be to cut your losses because by what you write, he already has.
moontissues 11:36 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
yeah. I didn’t know he had a girlfriend. He left that one out for three months, thanks.
moontissues 11:47 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
but you are right. Not to mention I dont have time for this right now. I have shit to do. I will not let him get to me. He has more issues than anyone I know, but I can’t even know that for sure. Think I’m going to delete this, I should not have posted it in the first place, I was just very upset.