God I’ve gotten so depressed and hopeless in…
God, I’ve gotten so depressed and hopeless in finding someone that I don’t care about anything anymore. There is this one girl though.. but 1. She lives in a city next to me 2. She might be leading me on. I hope not.. I don’t think I could take something like that right now.. so […]
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AsKnownAs. 9:03 am on July 1, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
The best advice I can give to you is that it’ll happen when it’s supposed to.
Don’t wait around for it to come to you, it feels like forever when you do that. Find something to distract your mind because you never know, you might actually meet someone special via an extra curricular activity.
I can also assure you of one thing. When you do meet that person, whether they’re right or wrong, permanent or temporary, if they make you happy in the here and now, it’ll suddenly make sense why it took so long for you to meet them. There’s this euphoric sense of how it all flows and fuses together in some kind of poetic path and you’ll be grateful for it happening when it happens.
Just be patient. Everything happens for a reason : )
quiteabitch 2:15 pm on July 1, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I second what AsKnownAs wrote, I really couldn’t have said it better myself.
I wanna add too the following: She might be leading you on, but I think that you should take the risk to try to date her, I mean, if you don’t take risks it will be very hard to find someone…Especially if you are a guy.
And second, you are not alone. I’ve felt the same way myself and many, many people I’ve known have had the same trouble. It’s okay. And well yeah, try new stuff and don’t be afraid. It will be over eventually =) We are here to support you.