How can I casually ask one of my coworkers what her mobile number is? I kind of have a crush on her and I KNOW it’s most likely one-sided… but I’d like to still become better friends with her and hang out out of work. I’m probably reading into things too much, but I also get […]
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theforgotten
i really don’t want you to have him. i know he’d never want me, but i just can’t stand the idea of you getting him
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Lethal Love
I had a huge crush on this straight girl, and asked her out, just to get it out of my system. We had a bit of a falling out. Lately I’ve been trying to talk to her some more, because she’s a really cool girl and I like being friends with her. I think she […]
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loveo
I’m in love with a man who is 12000 kms away from me. He loves me too. Only obstacles are: He wouldnt and couldnt leave his country. Because of his parents and I understand that. Not to talk about I dont know if he would get a visa to enter the US and could stay […]
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theforgotten
i miss you so fucking much why can’t…
i miss you. so fucking much. why can’t i make up my mind about you? maybe it’s because you’ve gone that i miss you. but i keep thinking about what you said when i told you that i was scared you would just walk away. you said you weren’t going anywhere. you lied. you told me that […]
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theforgotten
fuck i don’t love you christ i don’t…
fuck. i don’t love you. christ, i don’t even like you. i shouldn’t do this to you, because i love HER. and she is with him, and he is so wrong for her. i wish i could like you, i really do. i think i’m in this relationship for the wrong reasons, but i’m too […]
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anon913
My best friend currently out with the girl I like, and I always knew that I didn’t have a chance, and she was into him, but it burns. Last night we all hung out together, we goofing around I sprained my ankle while chasing her, (as apt a metaphor as any I could come up with). […]
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derroa
I will preface this by saying I am in a long-term relationship. A few years ago I met someone I liked and for about a year we were friends and then this turned into something more. The “affair” only lasted for a couple of weeks because he moved to a different country. We had a […]
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onlyexception
I have never felt like this before A…
I have never felt like this before. A few hours ago, I was laying down with Brandon, watching a movie and all I could think about was the fact that he was not holding me like Adam did… About how uncomfortable it was in comparison. I turned towards Brandon and started to caress his stomach, […]
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AsKnownAs.
I say this with all the kindness of my heart…
But Brandon doesn’t deserve someone who is pitting him against their ex.
You’re constantly comparing your last boyfriend to him, which to be honest, we all do. Especially with our first love. Paradoxically, the easiest way to determine when we meet someone WE deserve and someone who makes us happier than the person before (in your case, Adam), you find that they’re incomparable to the new guy, in the sense that they weren’t as fantastic as you made them out to be, because you’re so much happier now.
Sure, you’ll always compare past situations to present ones, we can’t help ourselves and it’s human nature to benchmark situations and people.
It all boils down to the fact that you shouldn’t be with anyone right now, not until you meet that guy that makes you forget about the past. Some moments in every relationship will be nostalgic to something you’ve already experienced, it can’t be helped, but just wait for the guy who you actually become attracted to, who you want to get to know, want to kiss and want to experience a relationship with. Don’t just date anyone for the sake of it. You’re wasting his and your time and that’s not fair.
He’s innocently laying there sleeping, while you’re putting down the strength of his heart beat.
And Adam? Adam isn’t with you anymore and you need to come to terms with that yourself, in your own time. It took me many, many months for that to happen to me, and it wasn’t because friends and family told me to get over my ex. It was when it finally clicked that he and I were no longer and would never be, and that life goes on.
A simple, overused phrase; life goes on. It’s true though.
Also, if he refuses to get back with you, it’s because he’s hurt. If he’s hurt, he’s most likely vulnerable, if he’s vulnerable, there’s a chance that if you fight for what you want, you’ll eventually get it. Get him. You just need to prove to him that you deserve him, if you’re the one that stuffed up. Maybe he’s over you? Maybe not? Maybe he’s with someone else? It can’t hurt to find out, everything happens for a reason.
But before you fight for your happiness and the love of your life, consider his happiness. Are you good for him? Really, deep down, are you?
If that’s a yes, then fight for it.
Get him back.
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Alice
My parents were killers my dad is dead…
My parents were killers; my dad is dead, and my mother has been in jail since I was 15. I never thought I deserved anything out of life, that maybe I was just a stain on the world. But I think I may be falling in love. And I’m terrified that once he finds out […]
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AsKnownAs.
Your parents are the ones who did what they did, not you. Don’t feel responsible for the terrible choices two other people made, you aren’t them. When you come to realise that you are your own person, then he’ll believe the same.
If he did leave you because of your parents past, then that’s his own stupid decision.Good luck
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nothinglastsforever22
I had sex with your best friend two weeks ago. He doesn’t call me names, push me away, or make me feel low. He makes me feel like someone actually needs me, even if it’s just for a piece of ass. By the way, the sex…it SUCKED. But the thought that it happened right after […]
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lengthymistake
I find it hard to love him what…
I find it hard to love him…. what with his fucking porn addiction & his habit of engaging in cybersex & just random chats w/ girls online. Oh, and there’s the whole thing about never doing anything with me anymore & basically running away from me as much as possible and never having sex with me. […]
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Lethal Love
I ended it before you could. Because I just can’t stand another day of this.
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Lethal Love
I ended it before you could. Because I just can’t stand another day of this.
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Lethal Love
You keep telling me to stop being so negative. But its hard, when everyone and everything has eventually let me down. Including you.
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Lethal Love
Hah. How stupid am I? Thinking that you wanted to be around me. No. I’m too needy and annoying. Too high maintenance. Because wanting to be around you because I love you is being needy. And no, why would you be straightforward with me? Why say “No, I don’t want to hang out” when you […]
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Lethal Love
I wore your shirt today. It’s starting to lose your smell. But it feels nice, pretending you’re here with me, just like two nights ago.
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Lethal Love
Sure, I still love you with all my heart and soul. You’re my best friend. I loved you for two years. Sometimes, I still do. It’s hard not to. But really, dear. You need to stop making me think you still like me. I don’t know if you do, or if you were just being […]
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lightlurker
I never thought we would be making so much progress in so little time Just last month we had only just settled into kissing, adventuring with tongue. But now I’m wishing I was on the frigging pill already. We are both pretty reserved, but massaging eachother opened us up to taking off more clothes. We […]
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AsKnownAs.
Every relationship is different.
If what you’re doing feels fine, feels like the pace you want to go at, then I say continue.
If you’re afraid to take it too far, just set up some boundaries, plateau for a bit and when it feels right, take it further or, take it down a notch. Whatever you decide.
I’d suggest speaking to him about this if you start feeling guilty or concerned… it might be helpful in some way (:
But really, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to these things - just what we’ve been cultured to believe what is right and what is wrong.
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Lethal Love
Funny. I never planned to fall in love with you. I never planned to care so much for you. I never planned to lay in bed and listen to songs with you. I never even planned to start dating you. Sometimes I make good mistakes, I suppose.
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quiteabitch 3:29 pm on May 22, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I understand, because I myself feel the same way at times. But I really hope that one day you find true beauty in a girl. The kind of beauty that lasts forever… And then youll realize that beauty isnt so hard to obtain.