I am scared. Very scared that if i was to get married and have children, I would feel resentment. That my feelings would lead to acrimony, pain and heartbreak. Not just for me, but A. and any children that we may have. I have to write this down. This catharsis is necessary to allow me to […]
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My best friend currently out with the girl I like, and I always knew that I didn’t have a chance, and she was into him, but it burns. Last night we all hung out together, we goofing around I sprained my ankle while chasing her, (as apt a metaphor as any I could come up with). […]
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I understand, because I myself feel the same way at times. But I really hope that one day you find true beauty in a girl. The kind of beauty that lasts forever… And then youll realize that beauty isnt so hard to obtain.
Hello everyone, this is my first confession on here… I almost don’t know where to begin. There’s this man, he’s 3 years older than me and I’ve been in love with him from the moment I set my eyes on him we’ll call him M. When I met him I was in a relationship with […]
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Eventually that hurts doesn’t burn quite as much….the hard part is staying away….I’ll keep my hands crossed for you to stay strong….
I got my heart broken a few weeks ago. It still hurts when he doesnt talk to me or joke around like we used too. It makes me feel alone sometimes. Other times it makes me feel angry. And occasionally, I still feel for him.
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Aw,….Im so sorry…. Would you mind explaining what happened?
Well, my friend (lets call him Brady) told me a few weeks ago that the dude I like (lets call him James) told Brady that he likes me. So Brady was like: Do you like him? And I said yes.
So the next day Brady told James that I liked him (they share art class together) and when I got to the class me and James share, James ignored me the whole way through, no matter how many inside jokes I did or anything I did.
So I questioned Brady about it and apparently, James didnt really say he liked me, Brady assumed he did. So I got heartbroken in the end result.
So yea. [/story]
James is an asshole. Too inmature tbh. Why wouldnt he talk to you over such thing? Im sorry but nothing but an inamture asshole. O bet he sdoesnt deserve you.
Haha, thank you. Thats actually the part that hurts me is that he wouldnt talk to me about it. He is pretty immature though and I would love to say I’m over him, but it does resurface ever once in awhile. So I’m just going to ignore him back and find someone else who’s better to go after, you know.
Yeah….Its ok & normal to feel that. We must remember that its not with our minds we feel…But with our hearts. Yeah, try someone else who does deserve you. Good Luck 
it just hurts more than anything to know that shes building something very meaningful with him. instead of me. because hes more right for her than i ever could be.
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awh, this is so sad.
And you are more right for another girl, than anyother man. or woman could ever be. just not the woman you are talking about…
- Shannon
I wish my ex best friend was dead. Actually dead. Not breathing. Does that make me a monster? At least I can admit to it, right…?
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That’s quite a thing to want for a former friend. It may be none of my business, but what did they do that made you feel this way?
I’d say it makes you human. Anger is healthy to a level. Like food and relatives it must be taken in moderation.
I miss you so much. I don’t understand what happened. One day everything is fine the next you won’t talk to me. OMG your 40 years old, we are not kids why are you acting like one? So I leave you a message and tell you fine, I will go away and leave you alone […]
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It’s all out of the blue? Just from the information in this post i surmise he’s playing games with you. Don’t call… play the game if you want but if you do, games is all you will play forever.
My heart is broken. But its not because of you. I would never give you that much credit. I broke my own heart isnt that what you would say? It was all my fault everything is all my fault. I could be hit by a car in a crosswalk and it would be my fault. […]
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I’m trying to keep from being depressed. For once I’ve had happiness for longer than 4 minutes. It’s been a week and I’ve been happy. So happy I’ve been paranoid. I just want to keep being happy…after 2 years of depression, I need to be happy. I need to be around people that can help me be happy. […]
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happiness is strange after depression. dont rush into it. take it in strides. its like withdrawl for lack of something better to phrase it as. you’re so used to being depressed happiness is hurting all at once. take it in strides.
Do the attempts at getting girls to video chat with you ever work?
I don’t ask them to video chat. I just ask to chat in general… and usually it isn’t just girls.
Sometimes it does. If it doesn’t, I’m not bothered. For the most part I just look for people to talk to
You’re really bad at trolling by the way.
that’s because i’m not a troll.
I would really appreciate advice from both guys and girls on this one….anyone, really. Is it normal to be dissapointed when I work up the ovaries to tell him how much I love him and how interested I am in him and whatever he’s doing and only get a “ditto” or “me too” as a response? […]
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You do not have an unmatchable passion, it’s just that either he isn’t verbal about his feelings, or he doesn’t share those feelings. It’s hard to verbally communicate to someone how you feel in a relationship and try and make them feel how you feel through the extent of mere words. So either you have to believe him, or you don’t…
I never thought anyone like you could exist. You’re my everything. I’m in love with you. I know you like me, but I’m so afraid to tell you I love you. Thanks to you, I feel free. I broke up with my ass of a boyfriend, I learned to stop listening to my father’s awful […]
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i love her so much, it hurts. i told her that i’m bi - she was the first i came out to. she thinks i like someone else - i’m afraid to tell her the truth. that i’m in love with her. i’m afraid if i tell her, she’ll end this, once and for all. i guess […]
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We used to be so close and so in love. I’m still in love with you, but you claim you don’t love me anymore. You’re so beautiful, you could have anyone you want. Why do you keep me around when you know how much I care about you and how much I want you back? […]
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Just leave him. You’ll eventually fall out of love with him, and maybe he’ll see how stupid he was for using you only for sex.
I’m the guy.
Girls can be horrible too, cant they?
I agree though. You should leave. Get out of it.
Sounds like she doesnt know what she wants.
You do. You deserve to be loved, better then what she gives you.
I will not explain why, but I feel the urge to cite Chris Rock:
“The show Desperate Housewives should be changed to ‘Ungrateful Bitches’!”
Gratitude for one’s sacrifice and actions can come by in very low amounts.
Leave her before her ridiculous attitude breaks your mind.
Remixer
seems easier said than done. she used to treat me good. i don’t understand how someone could be so cold.
I would point my finger at either loss of interest or fleeting sense of love.
Remixer
I just dont understand why she would keep me in her life, if she knows how much this hurts me.
minusmyself, she is controlling you and she loves it. She knows you will fall at her every demand and that you care enough that she can treat you this way and get whatever she wants from you.
In short, you’re letting her hold the cards.
I am in a similar situation, just minus the sex and acting like we are still in a relationship.
He was fully aware that he could act like a complete and total bastard and I’d still call him several times just to clarify things. He could behave like a little child and I’d still reluctantly understand and again try to be nice.
But as soon as I stopped all of that, I have noticed something change, ever so slightly… He is commenting on my Facebook and has a tendency to be cut (slightly offended) when I mention that my life is going ahead, or when I cut him from things. I’d go into more detail, but it’s not necessary.
I really still care about him, which is the downside to all of this. But I can’t let him know that I care enough for him to subconsciously manipulate me like a puppet.
Sorry for such a delayed response, but I hope you read this anyway.
And yes, it is easier said that done, but that doesn’t mean it is an impossible thing to do, because she’ll come around eventually. And if not, good riddance! You deserve better, and you will find better.
Good luck,
Daniela
I think she is so lucky to have you,I had someone I wanted cudless ,kisess and love from, to show me love and to have some closenes with me and to share a bit of himself with me(to open up) and he wouldnt,sex for him was enough and that was it and that was love for him. For me not , I wanted more then that I didnt know where I was at,would he get married to me or not I was stressing,he never give me straight answer plus I wanted to leave him at the beggining of the relationship like after 2-3 months and i tried so many times to finish it off and he wouldnt let me and I didnt know what to do I used to scream and get angry which i hate it and I hate arguments but you can imagine what he was brining me to, I wasnt strong enough to decide this is it, I was so stupid after all him giving me hard time and not just that I would say goodbye then he calls back dragging me and waisting my time, I waisted my time, I would slap him now how angry I am and bash him plus he lives close to me and i dont see him and i dont want to and dont wish too couse he is soo ugly. and I had lots of other quite nice guys looking at me and wanting to approach me plus he wasnt good looking and quite older then me and I am beautifull and sexy girl and I could have anyone(where my eyes were).there was in my relationship like we were married something like that like you are saying here and to be honest i dont like it in a relationship, marriage is marriage relationship is relationship.I would say stop trying putting all that efforts and dont let yourself get hurt by somone who might not care and respect that what you are doing.If she told you that she doesnt love you anymore it means something and maybe she keeps you around couse she doesnt know what she wants and is not strong enough to move on and these kind of relationships can drag on and on.If you broke up why go back if something is over its over, even if it is painfull and if you see its not working why stay ,move on, world is full of beautfiull women, there is plenty of women and girls up there seeking love and intimacy. Just dont forget you deserve respect and appreciation for your efforts and dont let it keep on going like that forever and be controlled by anyone,we all deserve respect.
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Yes, you should not let him get you down like that
He doesn’t do It on purpose. He stopped loving me
others will love you.
he isnt worth the pain xx
He’s worth everything I have. Nobody understands me like he does. Im afraid nobody ever will
That’s understandable, but I promise that if one person can figure you out, someone else will be able to as well. Here’s to hoping that person is better looking than this guy! 
Lmao. Awh thanks for that. You made me smile
Good, keep doing that
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I hate that I am so fragile right now. One night of not talking to me was all it took to send me right back to the bottom of the hill, all over again. It’s easier to put on a happy face again now, but is that really better than crying on the sofa when […]
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Just went through something that sounds very similar. If you cant tell. Its been weeks since he has talked to me. I have been curled up like that since the day i knew it was over. Its not a fun place to be. Dont do it. be open about it, have people help you deal with it. It stinks being so sad, and alone at the same time!!
That’s just it. We aren’t broken up. There are nights… most of last week, really… where everything is fine. Which is why I feel stupid for letting one or two lame nights totally tear me up like this.
We nearly broke up. That’s what started all of this. My mother tried to commit suicide and my boyfriend nearly broke up with me over it a few months later. And losing him isn’t JUST losing him, though that in itself is bad enough. His family is my family. Without them, I’m alone in this world.
It’s all so overwhelming… I’m sorry to hear that you’re having such a rough time, too. My heart really goes out to you. It’s nice to know that someone else out there knows what I’m going through, at least to some extent.
wow, i knew i didnt know your situation, because everyones is different. but man, im so sorry. i understand though. that his family is your family. and how hard it would be with out them all. how could he want to break up with you after somehting like that happens though? i find that horrible. yeah it may be a tricky situation and all but i would be nothing but THERE for my sig other if something like that happend. ah. Im so sorry about everything and mine goes out to you as well. Itll all be okay. Always here to talk! Either way i still do agree with what i said, its better to be open about it then keep it all inside and be by yourself. it really sucks being alone. so this site is good. because you can tell a bunch of strangers! =) lol
You are beautifull person and you dont need to be beautifull for anyone.
I have decided that I’d like to go to Narnia. This real world thing is just too complicated and painful for my liking. Give me a bow or a sword and let me take down some baddies and it’ll be awesome.
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I wish I could go to Narnia.
Moreover, I wish I could Blue-skadoo into any book of my choosing.
The point is: I understand completely.
I had a dream once that I was running around in the forest fighting monsters and picking up gold pieces. When I awoke, I was crushed. I totally dig it.
i like in narnia, and most fantasy novels is the clear definition between good and evil, right and wrong, you know where you stand unlike in real life sometimes
i went to Narnia once. it was nice there.
In my Narnia, no one would hurt one another and no one would die. Yes, it’d be a very overpopulated place, with lovely, lovely people. And talking animals.
I’m full of a rage and anger that I’m finding harder and harder to displace and escape. It’s like there’s a second person inside of me and all he wants to do is spread vermin and hurt and kill people. I do not know where this rage comes from but even when I’m in the […]
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I feel so much the same way. I fear there’s something to me that I don’t know whether or not to befriend.
It’s just hard because I know I want to help people and try to make the world better - but then there’s a a savage part of me that wants to kill and destroy everything I touch - I don’t know which is my true nature
i love you i really do thats why i think it kills me the most. i bet your fucking having fun hooking up with all theese guys. he was 18 you must of felt so mature you 14 year old slut. i loved you and i still do, but why all you do is hurt […]
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dick sucking =/= love
14 yr old.. get the fuck over it
quiteabitch 8:00 pm on June 9, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Ok. So, I don’t know if this will work or if I have any say at this, but as I read your confession only one person appeared in my head.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zmBgEwFcWM&feature=related
“My faggot father must have had his pantie’s up in a bunch, cause he split, I wonder if he even kissed me goodbye(…) I look at Hailie and I couldn’t picture leavin’ her side, even if I hated Kim, I grit my teeth and I’d try, to make it work with her at least for Hailie’s sake, I maybe made some mistakes but i’m only human, but i’m man enough to face them today…”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WYlp5EjU7uo&feature=related
What I mean is, a relationship with another person who isn’t your real family (like your wife) may end in the worst conditions; but it seems to be different when you have a child who, according to some people are the thing that a parent loves the most in its life. Don’t let whatever parent who hurt you when you were a kid hurt you even more by leaving a memory that forbids you to be happy. I know that it’s a lot easier said than done, but I believe that you should at least consider and trying to have a family.
quiteabitch 2:42 pm on June 10, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zmBgEwFcWM
“My faggot father must have had his pantie’s up in a bunch, cause he split, I wonder if he even kissed me goodbye(…)I look at Hailie and I couldn’t picture leavin’ her side, even if I hated Kim, I grit my teeth and I’d try, to make it work with her at least for Hailie’s sake, I maybe made some mistakes but i’m only human, but i’m man enough to face them today”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZUZ7Q7x61w&feature=related
You can’t let your past infect your future with hate. Maybe all the pain you felt is just another reason to love your child no matter what and make sure they don’t repeat your story. Don’t let them hurt you and forbid happiness for you more than they already have.