i don’t know how i really feel about my current boyfriend anymore, i don’t want to break his heart because it’s usally me on the spot at all times. And i have a feeling im going to fall for my ex again since he’s back in my life. ….but the problem is…there’s still another third guy in this situation ugh
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janet
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px2006
I miss you so much and each day without you hurts. I can’t just “take a break” from you and wait until you get better and then see if we still want to be together, whatever that means. You won’t explain to me what you meant. I’m glad we still talk but it’s hard to act just as friends. I promised you I’d be there for you whenever you needed me - I meant it … and you need someone now more than ever.
I don’t think I’ll ever get over loving you…
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shadowfang
all of the years I’ve been able to date, I’ve only dated and been in relationships with males only because no female ever wanted to go beyond having sexual relations with me, now I’m stuck in a relationship with a male who has treated me better than anyone ever has treated me in my life, but I can’t continue this charade anymore….I only want to be with women, and it would be devastating to leave him., I don’t know what to do:(
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Ambriel
The right thing to do is often the most difficult thing to do. Personally, I think it would be unfair to both of you to remain in this relationship. He’ll be hurt, and it’ll hurt to end it, but as you probably know, it is exhausting to pretend you’re happy in a relationship when you’re not. One day you will run out of steam, and you will have lost even more time to this masquerade. The stress isn’t healthy either. The longer you avoid the break-up, the harder it will be for both of you.
I’m really sorry you haven’t yet found a woman who wanted to get serious, but I’m sure she’s out there somewhere. Good luck, whatever you decide to do.
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Y DO I LUV U
follow ur heart… theres someone who will..
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JustAGirl
I feel so awful. I was really drunk and had a quicky with my best friend’s boyfriend. I didn’t mean to. But now I can’t stop thinking of him sexually and he convinced me to sleep with him again. I feel so awful, I had an anxiety attack and broke down one night. I love my friend and loathe myself for doing something that would hurt her if she finds out. I also can’t quit thinking about doing it again. I’ve got one of the most intense sex drives of anyone I know and I have to keep it in tight check. Idk what to do I feel so so terrible, but I can’t help somewhat wanting to do it again.
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eunuchess
I know that I’m intelligent, I know that I’m funny, I know that I’m caring, I know that I’m beautiful, I know that I’m special, I know that I deserve better, I even know I could have better. But all I want is you. And I hate myself for it.
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All Time Shannon
Me too.
- Shannon, x
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eunuchess
It’s an awful situation to be in, isn’t it? I’d seen it happen to others but never thought it would happen to me. Guess surprises never end. And I know I should get out of it but I can’t see how.
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cabisexy69626
I think I just made an acquaintance of mine a bridesmaid in my wedding because I think it will help me get in her pants. I hope my fiance will beable to handle being married to a bisexual slut like me.
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LovesBacon
You know, if you’re bi and your partner does not know about this, it may help to talk to him? You know, before you get married and are committed for life?
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secondchancesx3
Its not even the fact that you are bi, but the fact you want to get in one of your bridesmaids pants when you are committed to this guy…that is the problem here.
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Chemistry
Yeah.. you’re about to make a lifelong commitment, and you’re thinking about trying to get into someone else’s pants. That’s not a good way to start your life off with someone. It definitely shouldn’t have infidelity or secrets.
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cabisexy69626
He knows, he’s always known. but I’ve never acted on it. He says he loves the idea, but Im not so sure.
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live_rose
If you like that married woman more than me, which it seems you do. Then Dump me! Don’t wait till after the holidays don’t string me along dropping bits of affection my way here and there just dump me. My confession is I can’t dump you
1. Because you’ve been the best boyfriend I’ve ever had and I do love you ( though it’s getting hard to not pull back and stop all together)
2. As a girl with GA and SA I doubt I’ll be able to get another man
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soyboy2
I like porn, I LOVE PORN, although i have been trying to cut back some. Used to id spend ALLmy free time infront of my computer staring at pictures. But now i limit it to about an hour a week.
These days im more interested in webcam and txt sex. I’ve gotten pretty good at txt sex when im relaxed, and i like having people watch me on webcam and i have done it many many times.
But the problem i have is i desperately want to see a women on her webcam, and in a way be intimate with it. But i don;t want a relationship with it either. I have tried asking women on the internet many times, almost all of them say no, or ask for money. A few say sure, but that they’ll buy a webcam in a few weeks, so i chat with them for a few weeks while their free to watch me as they wish. But i tell them i don;t want a relationship, but they always eventually claim to fall in love with me and get pissed off when i want out (pretty much always right before they get a webcam :/ ).
I hate knowing that i’ve upset someone, i feel like scum when i upset someone. But i cyber just to release sexual tension (since my gf isn’t interested in intimacy as of yet), im not looking for a relationship, but its like nobody can grasp that.
just not sure what to do. Like if a girl wants to do cam with me im more than happy to, and id like to be friends with her if i could, but im not wanting a relationship out of it, and im not willing to pay for it either (lol, id end up with a $30k bill in a week if i did
)so any advice?
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rubies
Err.. if I was your girlfriend and found out you were sexting I’d dump your ass. Also, these girls probably were never going to let you see them on webcam..
I’d say stick to porn. Webcam/text sex could kinda be considered cheating, depends on the person you’re dating buuut something tells me she wouldn’t approve. Porn is more okay because you’re not actually getting to know the person, or gaining an emotional connection.
I’m a girl though and you’re probably for guys advice. Good luck!
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soyboy2
well i mean i need some kind of outlet, my gf, she wont even let me kiss her. We’ve ben together for over 5 months, we haven’t touched, or kissed, heck we haven;t done more than hold hands for more than 10 seconds, so i think having a way to vent the sexual tension should be allowed.
but ya, i hate that i do it, and i do fear what will happen if she finds out, but i need some way to let it out. But i don’t want to hurt people anymore just for my sexual interest.
I still want cam, but i don;t want to hurt anybody to get it, and it just seems no matter how hard i try i always hurt htem in the end. No matter how clear i am that i don;t want a relationship, or how nicely i try to break it to them, they always end up upset.
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s1mpl1c1ty
Dude
I’m sorry
but she sounds like she’s gay.
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soyboy2
hmm, well when she tells me she’s gay, or dumps me, then i’ll move on, till then im gonna keep cam’ing.
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groupshrug
How old is your girlfriend? If she’s still in her early to mid teens, she’s probably just shy about that kind of thing. If she’s older, she may have had some sort of sexual trauma growing up.
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rubies
There could be someone out there who’s better for you. I don’t really know your situation though or why she doesn’t want to do such things.
Girls get attached, pretty easily (in my experience), even if they say they aren’t going to get attached they will. I’m sure there’s some out there who are exceptions to that but they’re probably hard to find… or you have to pay them.
So you’re probably just going to have to keep hurting these girls for your own gain. Lovely.
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153246
i also like porn a lot but mine are more on the line of fetishes. i like reading sex stories and thoughts of lust come often and as time goes by the sex stories seem to less arousing so the stories get more and more taboo like subjects, including domination rape incest etc. I felt like i had to confess it and i want to get away from it.
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deionara
I met someone and fell in love with him, but now we live in different countries and since we were apart, we grew apart. He ended this a few days ago and since then I felt empty, sad, sorrowful and numb. I just wish I was with him, wish I hadn’t invested so much in this relationship, wish I was indifferent, wish there were many other guys I could have such amazing sex with and feel so deeply for…
All Time Shannon 7:10 am on February 28, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
i know what you mean by this, and im afraid there is nothng you can do about how you are feeling. ive felt the same for almost 2 years. But i figured its better to have him as a friend than not at all. Maybe in the future, things will change, and be the way you want them to be. Don’t give up.
- Shannon