My little brother killed himself 3 years ago. I still have a really hard time dealing with it, but can’t bring myself to talk to anyone else about it. I can’t afford a therapist, and I don’t see any reason why I should burden anyone else with my problems and negative feelings. But truth be […]
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Ineedahug.
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aixarpsyd
poly
I’m polyamorous and can’t tell my boyfriend. He’s the jealous type and wouldn’t understand.
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Y ask Y
Wow. I so know your pain.
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immortally.alive
HOLY SHIT. SO AM I.
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Aerotan
Frankly my dear, if he wouldn’t understand, then he’s also likely not the type that’s right for you to be with.
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Y ask Y
It’s so reassuring to know I’m not the only one.
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mojonano
I am one of the most shallow guys I know. I wasn’t always like this. I’ve been with really hot girls and I’ve been with fatties who aren’t so good looking, and they both act the same way. They’re self-centered, snobby, demanding bitches. So I’m only going to fuck hot women from now on. I’m […]
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itsme1
This is getting bad
I have tried being happy lately. I really do hate being down and I am normally an upbeat person. I am usually telling my wife to be more positive…The truth is, I hate my life. I feel like the last 14 years have been a waste. I messed up and put myself in a situation […]
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GraingerGuy
You’re seriously $100K in debt? Credit card debt? Time for bankruptcy my friend. It’ll get the creditors to stop calling and will give you a plan and peace of mind. Call an attorney. That’s one way to start.
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Y ask Y
Hey man. It’s never too late. There’s a saying that you have to eat an Elephant in small bites. Right now I’m sure it looks insurmountable, but even the smallest step towards change might create an Avanlanche towards something greater.
There’s truth in your post, and certainty. The certainty is that if you don’t make a change of some kind, you’re right, your life is guaranteed to be ass until the grave. Hope will come from change, man. It won’t just fall out of the sky. And that’s frightening and it’s shit and it sucks, but that’s how it is.
I don’t know about the debt. But I do know about no having much money to go around. The money has nothing to do with your ability to interact with your kids. Being a great dad is free. It’s just a matter or perspective, and if you don’t have money, ingenuity. You can do it.
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bobburgster
file for bankruptcy
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thisisnotmyname
I feel horrible about cheating on my wife. I made a fake email account and posted and replied to the casual encounters ads. She doesn’t even know that I use msn. This is my vicious cycle: I spend a lot of time online watching porn, then I get extremely aroused and do extremely stupid stuff. […]
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Remixer
My only suggestion:
Apologize to your wife with every ounce of sincerity in you and confess what you did. Do explain how terrible you feel, and explain your cycle to her.
However, you must be ready for the possibility, that she might leave you immediately after you confess.
Being held accountable for something you feel guilty for is the only way you will stop it from nagging on your mind and repeating this cycle.
While you’re at it, get rid of your computer and find some resolve in the love you hold for your wife, because you cheating on her shows exactly the opposite of what you’re telling us and yourself.
Remixer
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bobburgster
I have to agree with Remixer and addictguy….you need help, and to be honest with her.
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wd40
Do you own a computer and you wife owns a different one? Because if you have your own computer then go to internet options and then go to internet site blocking and just type some different letters and numbers that you will not ever remember so when u look at porn you wont be able to because those sites are locked. hope i helped
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addictguy
there are programs you can go to that help with your issue. It can be a type od sex addiction. I have a few friends that have had alot of success with them. SAA( sex addicts anonomys) is one but there are plenty of others, SCA SRA SLAA. It’s worth it to save a marriage.
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noname
So I have this problem, a kind of normal problem I guess. I’m still in love with my ex boyfriend. We started dating August 20th and we were on and off for 9 months. I never gave him head, but I let him take my virginity. After he took my virginity he decided head was more important […]
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Dan-Yella
I’m in a slightly similar situation.
Except, we broke up after 9 months for fighting over the most irrelevant things that just weren’t important. The thing is, we still remain friends in the hopes of working things out.
That’s when it gets sticky. He doesn’t know what he wants it seems, because one minute he can be cold and distant and then the next, we’ll hug eachother, and everything feels just right.
Its so much easier to just fall into a pattern, rather than moving on. And although you have moved on it doesn’t seem like you’re over your ex. Maybe if you had some single, alone time, you might be able to clear your thoughts.
All the best.
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padyirishman
hiya wana chat
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Song4TheNotebook
I feel like I have two separate lives. One with my girlfriends and all of our friends. And one by myself, that includes be naked and looking at porn. I’m trying to get rid of the second because I’m afraid she would leave me if she knew.
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soyboy2
hmm, i have the same concern, the side of me that i show to the world is the side i want to be. but i try to hide my perverted and porn addicted side from the world.
i try and get rid of my addiction of porn because im afraid id be scorned if the world knew, but i can;t get rid of it, and i wish there was a way to combine the 2.
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Song4TheNotebook
i dont want to combine the two!
i hate the hidden me! i want to get rid of it!
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s1mpl1c1ty
Some girls don’t mind
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Shannon_Secret
I second that!
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4qts
We are all hiding something. As long as its not really hurting anyone including you don’t worry about it
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groupkiss
yeah, chicks like it when they know that you know what you’re doing!
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Shannon_Secret
Me deffinetly!
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Song4TheNotebook
…im a girl too.
and i know for a fact it would bother her.
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letthefishgo
People need to watch porn more. Everyone is such a prude. Fuck those people! HAHAH yeehaww!
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in_visible
You made me cry. I know you didn’t mean to, but you did..I wish I could tell you but I don’t want to seem obsessive..
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Firerange
sounds like some of my relationships…
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in_visible
It’s not about a relationship..it’s about someone I don’t really know who doesn’t really know me either. I know, it’s so lame. But they ignored me so I thought they didnt notice me. So I bothered them a lot so they’d notice me, but they didn’t even tell me to my face that I was annoying. They had their friend tell me. And that made me cry. I didnt even mean to bug her. It’d take too long to explain why it upset me so much…but it did.
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Remixer
Nothing takes too long to explain.
Since you’ve started it on here, I suggest you spill the whole bucket.
Remixer
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in_visible
It doesn’t matter now. Because I’ve realized I took it the wrong way. I just took it way too personally
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Remixer
I’m glad things turned out well.
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mojonohomo
sorry
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gleedyy
I stay awake all night and sleep all day so I don’t have to deal with my mother when she is awake.
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mylife
*Hug*
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myhomewarddove
hug
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EvilNobby
Im a bit of a masochist, i want to be a slave, but im scared! unfortunately my girl is also in my end of the spectrum aswell.
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wmikes
i want the girl named HEIDI. when can i have you? even though you are younger i still want you. i heard you go out with alot of guys but i don’t care. you could be mine. i know you like me too, but if i don’t hurry you will stop liking me and move […]
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SlowlyRising 8:42 am on April 11, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I would gladly give you a hug if I could. Being able to tell other people about your problems isn’t burdening, it’s a sign you trust and care about them. Talk to someone in person.
You need to stop thinking about suicide. I don’t think it’s what you really want, and more importantly, I don’t think it’s what your brother would want.
quiteabitch 10:24 am on April 11, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
HUUUGSGGSSSSS!!
La 6:05 am on July 5, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I’m sorry. Hugs
nothing but me 1:36 pm on July 5, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
If I could I would hug you till your bones crack
Love
S.