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moontissues
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mojonano
I am one of the most shallow guys I know. I wasn’t always like this. I’ve been with really hot girls and I’ve been with fatties who aren’t so good looking, and they both act the same way.
They’re self-centered, snobby, demanding bitches.
So I’m only going to fuck hot women from now on. I’m good-looking and I’ve got a great cock, and if a woman’s going to be a bitch, then she only deserves it if she’s good-looking too.
Problem is, I’m in a slump right now because I sleep outside.And one more thing!
Why do chicks think that their pussy is so much more of a prize than my cock. They’d be shocked if they got a piece of me. They always are. So why do they always end up withholding the pussy so they can try to make me jump through hoops for it.Don’t they know that I can just fuck their friends?
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nothing but me
I can’t trust my psychiatrist, my friends or my family.
I can’t trust anyone.
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lifelost
even if you dont trust them find trust in yourself and know that no matter what, even if the world turns its back on you, that you are you and nothing will ever change that.
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ClosetAthiest
I had given up on African-American guys, until I met him. To me it seemed that there was not even a single black man out there that could live up to my standards, let alone be in a relationship with me. Every black guy I met seemed as if he was uneducated, obnoxious, or ignorant. My top requirement for a datable man is education. Anyone who doesn’t have aspirations to further their education, in my eyes, is illiterate and lacks ambition. That was until I met Sam. He is articulate, intelligent, polite, extensively chivalrous, charming, has a beautiful smile, and gives amazing hugs. He is a writer, rapping is a hobby of his, and he’s not like most “wanna-be rapper guys,” he understands that there is no money in music, and he has an alternative; He’s an English major, and a damn good one.
He doesn’t know that I feel this way about him, and maybe never will. Because I could be happy for the rest of my life with JUST the relationship we have now. I wouldn’t want to jeopardize our friendship for an impulsive decision. If we never end up together, he has given me hope, that my perception of a “perfect man” exists; And if we were to end up together, we would be one of the most dynamic, ambitious couples ever.
I Love you Samuel.
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lishaloo
Can you try to be just a bit less innocent? Holding hands, hugging, the ol’ arm-around-the-shoulder…that’s nice and everything, but I’d like just a bit more than that. A hand on the waist or a kiss on the cheek is all I’m asking for. I know you’re shy, and I know I’m your first girlfriend, but c’mon! I’m not new at this whole dating thing. I’m ready for more.
The reason this is on grouphug is because I would never tell him this. I remember my first boyfriend always trying to push me. Even the simplest thing could make me tremble with nervousness. I would never push him into anything.
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thallie
Be patient, but don’t be afraid to let him know a little bit more is okay. Chances are he just doesn’t want to move too fast for you. Be glad that he’s considerate. Much better than the alternative (:
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rivergirl
Think about it like this - he cares enough to take his time with you.
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tiffany blews
give him time. don’t rush him- remember how it felt your first time. if you’re gentle and patient, you will eventually get what you’re looking for. (but who am i to give advice- i’m a teenager with zero relationship experience…)
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ithinkineedahug
fuck. i dont trust my best friend. i dont trust anyone.
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D.S
Trust yourself.
Sometimes just being able to rely on yourself can help you through your troubles.
Independence is a gratifying thing, so long as you don’t close yourself off from the people around you.
Daniela
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D.S
By the way, I responded to your comment back a few days ago.
Daniela
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ExxNyvalia
All I want out of life is for my best friend to be happy. But when I tell people, they tend to downplay it or laugh at me.
But I’m serious! I don’t want anything else LONG TERM. I mean hell, I want the new KH game, or that new book in my favorite series, but I don’t want to have anything LASTING.
Except what I want for her. I want her to be happy, because she’s helped me so much, and I want her to have a happy life. I only want to be around until she finds that someone that will make her happy in a romantic way, and then I’m turning her over to that him (or that her, as the case may be; I don’t care) and then…
I’m done.
Capice? That will be IT. The end of me.
But nobody understands this. Can you just open your eyes for ONCE and see how serious I am?!
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KiwiCake
I feel this way about other people in general.
As long as you can maintain yourself, you can help maintain others.
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singledad79
I am in a relationship after 4 years of being single. My last relationship was, well lets just say a 3 year wreck. She really did a number on me. I am now a jealous and insecure person. I never really was before. My current girlfriend is wonderful. She sought me out. I didn’t really give her the time of day at first mainly because I didn’t think she was serious about me. But she was persistent and I liked that so decided to give her a chance.She is more then I could ask for. Although she has her faults. The biggest is her pride. Anyways at first everything was good…I mean EVERYTHING. I was confident, and didn’t show her my jealous side. After 3 months I found myself questioning her on almost about everything she did. I know that is not attractive. She called me out on it and said if this is how its going to be, she didn’t want to be with me. I promised to change. I have not acted like that since (we are now together for 6 months) but feel like I’m going to slip very soon and start with the questioning. I feel my self getting jealous when she’s not with me. What can I do..or should I do…so that I don’t lose this special woman????
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soyboy2
what you need to realise is that questioning things isn;t always the best thing. worrying does no good.
if you want to keep her you need to trust her, if you don;t trust her then you need to move on.
when she isn;t with you just ask her what she was doing that day, and what ever her answer is take it as the truth, second guessing her will never work well.
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peace2010
I understand what your feeling, I too went through my own relationship horror movie. And I must say I do have the insecurities, paranoia and want to question every little thing. Where is he? What’s he doing? Who’s he doing it with.. it goes on and on and I hate it. I have tried to keep the crazy in check for the same reason you are. We want our current relationship to continue. So I decided to get some help.. actually I decided that today. I’m gonna try a site…
http://www.emotionsanonymous.org/
They even have live and in person group meetings in most states. And before you say “Oh hell no I’m not saying anything in front of people”… Believe me, talking with others who understand what your talking about is really pretty great. I went to grief group therapy after I lost someone very close to me and it helped a lot. Give it a try.. good luck
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gleedyy
I’m not hanging on for the truth anymore. I hinted, but maybe you thought I was putting trust in you by not asking. I never did accept your answers. I hope you get what you deserve. You already have her…maybe even a disease or two.
If you hadn’t lied to me about so much…if I hadn’t trusted you with so much…if you hadn’t treated me as a patient…I would’ve believed you.
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ama
I love him so much. he says he wont cheat on me but i seriously doubt it. maybe its because he cheated on his ex with me. i cheated on him once with another guy. I’m sometimes attracted to girls. if he knew he’d freak. i wanted to fuck his brother. i always fake my orgasms. i dont like his mother.
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bloodwork
What goes around comes around.
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padyirishman
hi ema know how you feel,been there done that, wna chat?
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pd0815 11:31 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
If he already has a girlfriend, and i guess you already knew about her, how did you get hurt? I really doubt this guy has issues with confrontation. no one really does. I has more to do with convenience and being a asshole. The people he has “destroyed”… i mean… who allows that to happen to themselves these days? If it’s true then they’ve allowed themselves to be destroyed. You were used if he already has a girlfriend. he’s not only a user but a cheater as well and that’s just the crap you know about. good luck getting the truth from him. I like trying to guess what happened in this drama that has caused you to hurt so. My advise would be to cut your losses because by what you write, he already has.
moontissues 11:36 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
yeah. I didn’t know he had a girlfriend. He left that one out for three months, thanks.
moontissues 11:47 am on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Log in to Reply
but you are right. Not to mention I dont have time for this right now. I have shit to do. I will not let him get to me. He has more issues than anyone I know, but I can’t even know that for sure. Think I’m going to delete this, I should not have posted it in the first place, I was just very upset.