I never thought we would be making so much progress in so little time Just last month we had only just settled into kissing, adventuring with tongue. But now I’m wishing I was on the frigging pill already. We are both pretty reserved, but massaging eachother opened us up to taking off more clothes. We […]
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lightlurker
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moontissues
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pd0815
If he already has a girlfriend, and i guess you already knew about her, how did you get hurt? I really doubt this guy has issues with confrontation. no one really does. I has more to do with convenience and being a asshole. The people he has “destroyed”… i mean… who allows that to happen to themselves these days? If it’s true then they’ve allowed themselves to be destroyed. You were used if he already has a girlfriend. he’s not only a user but a cheater as well and that’s just the crap you know about. good luck getting the truth from him. I like trying to guess what happened in this drama that has caused you to hurt so. My advise would be to cut your losses because by what you write, he already has.
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moontissues
yeah. I didn’t know he had a girlfriend. He left that one out for three months, thanks.
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moontissues
but you are right. Not to mention I dont have time for this right now. I have shit to do. I will not let him get to me. He has more issues than anyone I know, but I can’t even know that for sure. Think I’m going to delete this, I should not have posted it in the first place, I was just very upset.
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mojonano
I am one of the most shallow guys I know. I wasn’t always like this. I’ve been with really hot girls and I’ve been with fatties who aren’t so good looking, and they both act the same way. They’re self-centered, snobby, demanding bitches. So I’m only going to fuck hot women from now on. I’m […]
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hi, how are you
I can’t trust my psychiatrist, my friends or my family. I can’t trust anyone. I’m a coward.
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lifelost
even if you dont trust them find trust in yourself and know that no matter what, even if the world turns its back on you, that you are you and nothing will ever change that.
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ClosetAthiest
I had given up on African-American guys, until I met him. To me it seemed that there was not even a single black man out there that could live up to my standards, let alone be in a relationship with me. Every black guy I met seemed as if he was uneducated, obnoxious, or ignorant. […]
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lishaloo
Can you try to be just a bit less innocent? Holding hands, hugging, the ol’ arm-around-the-shoulder…that’s nice and everything, but I’d like just a bit more than that. A hand on the waist or a kiss on the cheek is all I’m asking for. I know you’re shy, and I know I’m your first girlfriend, […]
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thallie
Be patient, but don’t be afraid to let him know a little bit more is okay. Chances are he just doesn’t want to move too fast for you. Be glad that he’s considerate. Much better than the alternative (:
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rivergirl
Think about it like this - he cares enough to take his time with you.
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tiffany blews
give him time. don’t rush him- remember how it felt your first time. if you’re gentle and patient, you will eventually get what you’re looking for. (but who am i to give advice- i’m a teenager with zero relationship experience…)
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ithinkineedahug
fuck. i dont trust my best friend. i dont trust anyone.
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D.S
Trust yourself.
Sometimes just being able to rely on yourself can help you through your troubles.
Independence is a gratifying thing, so long as you don’t close yourself off from the people around you.
Daniela
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D.S
By the way, I responded to your comment back a few days ago.
Daniela
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ExxNyvalia
Why? Why Can’t You Understand Me?
All I want out of life is for my best friend to be happy. But when I tell people, they tend to downplay it or laugh at me. But I’m serious! I don’t want anything else LONG TERM. I mean hell, I want the new KH game, or that new book in my favorite series, but […]
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KiwiCake
I feel this way about other people in general.
As long as you can maintain yourself, you can help maintain others.
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singledad79
I am in a relationship after 4 years of being single. My last relationship was, well lets just say a 3 year wreck. She really did a number on me. I am now a jealous and insecure person. I never really was before. My current girlfriend is wonderful. She sought me out. I didn’t really […]
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soyboy2
what you need to realise is that questioning things isn;t always the best thing. worrying does no good.
if you want to keep her you need to trust her, if you don;t trust her then you need to move on.
when she isn;t with you just ask her what she was doing that day, and what ever her answer is take it as the truth, second guessing her will never work well.
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peace2010
I understand what your feeling, I too went through my own relationship horror movie. And I must say I do have the insecurities, paranoia and want to question every little thing. Where is he? What’s he doing? Who’s he doing it with.. it goes on and on and I hate it. I have tried to keep the crazy in check for the same reason you are. We want our current relationship to continue. So I decided to get some help.. actually I decided that today. I’m gonna try a site…
http://www.emotionsanonymous.org/
They even have live and in person group meetings in most states. And before you say “Oh hell no I’m not saying anything in front of people”… Believe me, talking with others who understand what your talking about is really pretty great. I went to grief group therapy after I lost someone very close to me and it helped a lot. Give it a try.. good luck
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gleedyy
I’m not hanging on for the truth anymore. I hinted, but maybe you thought I was putting trust in you by not asking. I never did accept your answers. I hope you get what you deserve. You already have her…maybe even a disease or two. If you hadn’t lied to me about so much…if I hadn’t […]
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ama
I love him so much. he says he wont cheat on me but i seriously doubt it. maybe its because he cheated on his ex with me. i cheated on him once with another guy. I’m sometimes attracted to girls. if he knew he’d freak. i wanted to fuck his brother. i always fake my […]
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bloodwork
What goes around comes around.
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padyirishman
hi ema know how you feel,been there done that, wna chat?
padyirishmanatyahoodotcodotuk
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AsKnownAs. 3:07 am on February 22, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
Every relationship is different.
If what you’re doing feels fine, feels like the pace you want to go at, then I say continue.
If you’re afraid to take it too far, just set up some boundaries, plateau for a bit and when it feels right, take it further or, take it down a notch. Whatever you decide.
I’d suggest speaking to him about this if you start feeling guilty or concerned… it might be helpful in some way (:
But really, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to these things - just what we’ve been cultured to believe what is right and what is wrong.