My best friend currently out with the girl I like, and I always knew that I didn’t have a chance, and she was into him, but it burns. Last night we all hung out together, we goofing around I sprained my ankle while chasing her, (as apt a metaphor as any I could come up with). […]
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Antivacant
I don’t like love stories. But I spent years devoted to him. I spent years letting him inside my walls that I built to protect myself thinking he’d stay there and we’d be happy because we’d have each other. I spent years writing letters when he was deployed and thinking up things to send him, […]
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lolarunsfast
I’ve been in love with my best friend for the last 3 years. I’ve told him I have feelings for him a few times. We are closer than anyone, we talk all the time, and we tell each other everything. There is nothing too awkward for us. We hooked up for a while 2 years […]
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anonym00se
I’ve never fallen in love before. In all relationships I’ve been in, I haven’t ever truly felt a good connection. I always feel superior to them, and it prevents me from feeling something special.
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4815162342
I can see how that would happen. The special person in my life went to a university, had multiple jobs, and a few years older than me. However I worked at a food restaurant and went to community college. I just wanted to make her happy because I felt as if it gave me true purpose. Sure I didn’t have my shit together as much as she did, but I gave her all I had to give and was motivated more to move up in life. I don’t think it’s exactly a bad thing to feel superior, but if you made your significant other very happy, shouldn’t that give you a special feeling?
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anonym00se
No. I just felt guilty. I knew I was leading them on, and I’d never be able to return it the same way.
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luckyducky
Feeling superior…do you think you would have the same issue if you tried to date someone that YOU hit on…..betcha those ones sought y-o-u out…I’ve got a similar issue….men just drone on and on and on….about idiotic dribble….sigh….more people need a date worthy brain…
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Girl
So, I saw her again tonight, two of our friends were also with us. She and I watched tv on our friend’s twin sized bed while out other two friends were on the the computer on the other side of the room. She laid her head down on my stomach while we watched a show. […]
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pd0815
No way. more detail please.
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Mara
I think you should tell her how you feel. It’s cheesy. It’s cliched. But you should do it anyway, or you’d forever wonder.
And if you do, please let me know how it goes.
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Rejected_Pathetically
I only miss him anymore on slow Fridays at work. That was when we did the most of our chatting- Slow Fridays. I checked my workload for tomorrow before I left work today. It’s going to be slow. This.Is.Not.Good. Guess I’ll ask my boss for some extra work when I get in tomorrow.
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my_real
I’m in love with the most beautiful woman on the planet. Her voice is pure joy, like starlight, and her eyes are the colour of the sun through leaves. And she isn’t in love with me. She’s in love with someone else. She’s stated, categorically, that she will “never be in love” with me. Which […]
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quiteabitch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yiGtN-dplYk Idk if this song could help, but I t really helped me once. I could relate my feelings a lot
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Girl
I had an awesome day today down at the canyon with everyone, especially since she went. c: But I STILL don’t know what are my exact feelings for her. What kind of love do I feel for her? While having some sandwiches down by the river some of the people in our group joked about how some […]
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alittleglitch
I think you need to just go for it, sweetheart.
You seem absolutely smitten with this girl and it is definitely worth telling her about.
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Mara
Do what scares you. It’s often worth it. Take a risk, and don’t worry about labling your love. Just feel it!
And oh yeah, if you do take a chance? Good luck! I’ll be cheering you on from across the internet.
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Girl
So I know I don’t post here too often. Hell, I post ‘confessions’ more than what I reply to others confessions. But that doesn’t mean I don’t read them. I come on GroupHug nearly everyday and read confessions… I just never comment on them. I feel like my two cents wouldn’t really help at all, […]
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Mara
I know what you mean, I read them all but just don’t know what to say. Then I wonder what people think of mine and wonder why nobody says anything. I’m a hypcrite though.
I read your confessions. I always wondered how things worked out for you. I didn’t feel so alone, knowing someone else was torn up over first love as well.
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Girl
Bahaha! Same here, I sometimes wonder what people think about my confessions as well… and I also wonder why nobody says anything. xP makes sense though, I don’t comment much so I guess I shouldn’t expect comments back. All I hope is that my confession has been read by at least one person.
But yeah, things are pretty much the same with her. I see her about three times week at the most. As much as I want to distance myself from her, I find myself unable to do so. Right after I leave her I start coming up with a plan or excuse for me to be able to hang out with her. I really don’t know where this is going to take me. Sigh. -_-
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Mara
I reckon far more people read than comment. Probably ‘cos they just don’t know what to say. I certainly don’t most of the time.
And yeah, I know that one. I think I left something at his house once, just so I knew I’d have to come back later to pick it up. (Wow. That sounds a little stalker-ish when I actually write it down. It seemed fine at the time.) Do you miss her just after she says goodbye too? *hug*
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jasmine
yeah, i’m more of a reader than a commenter myself ^-^” i wish you luck with the future!
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confusedtrio
Hide and Seek, balancing feelings
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Girl
I hate seeing her fall for someone else and her hanging out with her ex-girlfriend… and I hate myself for not telling her anything. Which I probably never will. I keep trying to forget her… but I always find myself replying to her messages. Why is it so hard to forget her? I literally think […]
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All Time Shannon
You never know unless you try.
If your going to start somewhere new or take to another city. Please make sure you are completely ready for it. Because it won’t be easy. Starting out somewhere new never is.Go and find the one who’s right for you. It could be the girl you are talking about. It could be someone completely different.
Good luck.
And remember,
Infinate Hope.- Shannon
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Mara
I shouldn’t be here. He’s asleep in the bed, not two feet away. On Valentine’s Eve. He asked me to leave, but there’s no place to go to - so I stayed. He’s in love with his ex still. I’m in love with him. And I’ll spend the night in his bed. I shouldn’t. I […]
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Rejected_Pathetically
Habit is a Bitch.
Every time I sign into my gmail, out of habit, I check to see if you’re online, even though I saw you block me months ago. (Side Note: Since it was right as I came back from a two-hour long meeting, I’m certain you waited until I became active, just to make sure I was […]
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LeftBehindInCA
The stories I write are my fantasies of you. I hope that’s not all they will be.
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hi, how are you
I think he doesn’t like me that way. I think he likes another girl. Or maybe he’s gay. At least he would be a great friend. I don’t feel jealous. Just a bit sad. And grateful.
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All Time Shannon
Better to have him as a friend than not at all
- Shannon
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Chemistry
I remember a long time ago when I used to like a guy and I suspected he liked someone else, I actually hoped he would be gay so at least it wasn’t my fault that I was a girl and he was uninterested. Haha… silliness. Maybe you should ask him about it if you’re feeling gutsy?
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Bepohika
Ask him! Just take the chance…..who know’s what you’re missing. If he feels the same way you do, you’ll have gained so much more than you would have lost if he said no. I know it’s easier said than done, but I wasted a great chance I had and I don’t want you to do the same.
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AndreaJ
I am a senior in high school. My two best friends are in college and we hadn’t seen each other in two months. I am in love with one friend, and I think the other is into me – but I’m not sure. In addition to the fact that the friend I am in love […]
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everyoneneedstime
Unrequited love is something that no one should have but something that everyone endures. I can say that I have never had my heart broken. Don’t get me wrong, I have had my share of girlfriends. I think I was too scared to get my heart broken. I’m not very open with my feelings, so if […]
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Violin
He’s talking about dumping her tomorrow. I still love him, and I really hope he does break up with her tomorrow. Not so that he can actually be with me, because I understand that he’ll never want to (although I’ll never understand why he told me he loved me that summer). No, I want him […]
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ShastaKey
Loving somebody, even somebody you shouldn’t, doesn’t make you bad.
You’re not mean. You’re not a homewrecker. You’ve just got his best interests in mind.
It’s probably true that you shouldn’t be dating the guy you are since you’ve got such strong feelings for somebody else, but you haven’t actually hurt anyone.
That makes you far from bad.
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secondchancesx3
the only thing you are doing wrong here is dating the guy you are with, when your emotions obviouslly arent towards him, they are towards his friend.
Theres nothing wrong with being in love with him. But you shouldnt be lieing to your boyfriend about your feelings.
Break up with him, until you become emotionally available.Everything else though, I would say your intentions are good.
You arent a bad person. You are just flawed like the rest of us.
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hakking
I texted her that morning to say I needed to speak to her. I resolved to tell her my feelings this morning - after 2 years of doubting the sincerity of my feelings I finally came to realise that they were true. Many mornings I wake up and wish she was by my side, that […]
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D.S
I really and truly feel for you.
The only advice I can give for this is that you need to move on, which I extremely hard, I know - but it has to be done.
Daniela
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unknown
man, thats almost made me cry, thats so fucking sweet
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hakking
Dearest, I still love you that hasn’t changed. I can still see your innocent eyes looking back at me through the lens of my mind. That luminescent smile that could light up the gloomiest day. That penguin-like waddle that makes me want to laugh. Every time I see you I simply can’t hide my happiness. Bliss for a few seconds before reality hits home.
What has changed is that I am certain. I’m certain that you don’t love me. That puts me at ease - at least I can be certain of where we stand. Sometimes I’m thankful you said no - at least I can move on somewhat and also do things I’ve wanted to get on with.
I blame Disney for still hoping for a happy ending.
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sickforever
am i stupid?
im 19. my boyfriend is amazing. ive been with him 9 months. i am hopelessly in love with him but he does not love me, i dont know if he ever will. feel like im forever waiting from him, but i cant give up hope just yet. he makes me happy. wish he would realise […]
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rivergirl
You’re not stupid at all. It might be frustrating, but you have to glad that he values enough to take his time with you.
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D.S
Love takes time.
If it takes too long, then maybe you need to reconsider whether this relationship is really worth your time. That sounds scary I know, but sometimes we need have a realistic attitude about where we stand.
For now, don’t let it weigh on your mind. That may cause fights, and many other problems in the relationship. Just enjoy life and let it go for the time being. You’ll know when too long, is too long.Daniela
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sickforever
thank you guys, i just dont want to be taken for a fool…. he makes my head spin
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quiteabitch 3:29 pm on May 22, 2011 Permalink | Log in to Reply
I understand, because I myself feel the same way at times. But I really hope that one day you find true beauty in a girl. The kind of beauty that lasts forever… And then youll realize that beauty isnt so hard to obtain.